metal groups and I on the other hand am stuck in the preppish look....and if I change then it would seem as if I am a poser. So how can I subtly attract him my way?
2006-12-30 04:20:46 · 10 answers · asked by shadowrose720720 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw...I do like ALL music including metal and I like the punk/rock style I just cant seem to get into it without people making too many comments about it or asking why I like the music...
2006-12-30 04:32:34 · update #1
do your own thing & show him that you're into yourself....but not stuck up.dont make him feel like you would change your whole look for him. girl that may seem a bit pressed. have your own seperate intrests b/c thats how opposites attract....oh yeah, & keep yourself looking good @ all times.
2006-12-30 04:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could get over thinking you can't dress up to please or attract somebody, the WORLD of METAL is your oyster.
Forget what anybody's gonna' say unless it's supportive. Get a nice AC/DC sleeveless t-shirt, short black skirt, fishnets, stompin' boots and a cute little stud choker for your neck. Use some eyeliner, fluff out your hair and stick a bobbypin instead of an earring in your earlobe (well, if there's a hole there!). Just wear the outfit when he'll see you. If you're walking past him, enhance your appearance by staring hard at him, lick your lips the way guys think we do when we're gettin' sexy with 'em, smile, wink, and stare. Don't let the eye contact break, if you're passing each other, turn your head to keep the contact. If he hasn't made his move by then, SPEAK UP. "So, banged any heads lately?" or something funny, clever.
The next day dress as usual. Pick another day to dress alternative, not the outfit used the first time, and get his attention again. The point is to get his attention by demonstrating versatility. People change; they change their careers, their lifestyles, their mates, their priorities, for goodness sake, nothin' wrong with changing your outfit to suit the mood (the mood being to snag this guy's attention). No real need to feel odd (okay, peer pressure but isn't that dumb), you're an individual. You're free to change. You're free to use your talent, style and wit to attract someone you like.
Go get 'im, tiger. Meowrrrf!
2006-12-30 04:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
merchandising out for me is changing your music to alter into extra effective and to no longer fulfill your self creatively. i do no longer purchase the thought that Metallica went from "AJFA" to "The Black Album" in below 3 years consistent with imaginative strategies. additionally, to whom ever pronounced it, sure a producer has an effect on an album, yet they do no longer write the songs! the reason I call bullsh*t on Metallica is with the help of the fact i think it replaced into so blatant. returned, i'm no longer regular sufficient with Megadeth's discography to declare in the event that they did sell out or no longer. you need to argue that the music "Peace Sells" replaced into mainstream friendly and that replaced into on their 2d album! Being mainstream/standard isn't what I (a minimum of) advise through merchandising out. changing your music to income acceptance and acceptance is, no longer the actuality that extra human beings wish the direction you're moving into. BA: Recycling the same music returned and returned returned isn't merchandising out, it in basic terms questions your musical skill no count if that's all you're able to do. i'd think of you have been speaking approximately Sepultura in the ninety's or perhaps Slayer with the 5+ recycled albums.
2016-12-15 11:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and if this doesn't work then anything else you do will be considered false advertising if you know what I mean. Let him know that you like him and that his style is appealing to you. Take interest in your difference and it makes it more fun for the both of you.
2006-12-30 04:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm into old rock like Led Zeppelin and Guns N' Roses, and some harder stuff like Alice Cooper and Metallica too.. coincidentally i wear prep clothing lol.. anyway my girlfriend listens too like new stuff pretty much the radio and we get along fine.. i could listen to her stuff too and i don't think she has a problem with my type of music..
2006-12-30 06:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to pretend to be something you aren't and you probably don't to look tto much like a poser. Then he probably wouldn't like you at all. All the advice I have for you is try and be yourself and if he doesn't like it he's not meant for you!
2006-12-30 04:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by emmaboo101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all never change for a guy, they aren't worth it. stick to your own style & he'll have his. it doesnt matter if he's into different styles of music or different hobbies;; you do your thing & he'll do his. guys don't really like girls who are exactally like they are... mabye similar but they dont really care what kind of music you like, & if they do then they are not worth you. you should be able to keep your own style & find a guy who like you for you. remember opposites attract, no need to change your style to suit someone else.
2006-12-30 04:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself. i dont know why im giving advice to a prep, but just stay true to urself. you will not be a poser unless you call urself that. dress how you want to, and dont take **** from nobody. but basically just be urself:)
but to be honest with you i dont think metalheads like preps. us alternative ppl dont like you, sry
2006-12-31 06:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by Argiiii. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know? Bad boys LOVE good girls!! Stay just the way you are.
2006-12-30 04:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by white.devil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boobs and fishnet stockings and daisy dukes.
2006-12-30 04:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋