Why are men the way they are....?

Question

Living in this world where fake boobs and skanky women are loved better then not. Even if a man wants a women that will stay with him and not cheat and be respectful it seems they still fantasices about the girls they see in porns. Or want you to dress like a skank.What is this world coming to. Now a guy can cheat on you and still be inlove with you!? Or look at other women naked. Or tell you that you should get fakes boobs and a tummy tuck because now real breast are not good enough these days. I mean maybe alot of girls dont think it is so bad or just dont care, but I think that 20 years ago or so this would not have been put up with at all...Just think about what its going to be like in another 10-20 years.:(

Answer 1

A man is going to be a man no matter if the woman has fake boobs or real. Just overlook it all. Be glad it's their issue and not yours. You are who and what you are and nothing more -- and believe me that is probably all you really need to be. If you are not wanted for the real you, then how can a man's attention towards you be real? If he wants skank, fake boobs, looks at porn, tells you that you need a tummy tuck and then have the nerve to think he is still in love with you, the man is somewhere else, way far away from you and what you may think is a relationship. You are trying to think ahead, do you really think he is? It all sounds to me like he is looking at other women and finding things on them that he feels is appealing and turns around and asks you to alter yourself to look like someone other than your real self. To me, that's an insult. Isn't the real you good enough? Do you feel you are good enough? Again, be real to yourself.

Answer 2

I have to agree. It has goten too far out of hand. Ya they say not all guys are not like that but thats a lie. When they say that they are kidding them selfs. They meen to tell us that there is atleast one guy out there that dose not look at girls in the wrong way. Ya it is mostly there falt but we (as wemon) have put up with it this far. Now it may sound kinda crazzy but back befor all of the tecnology we were at the top of the house. We told the men when they could eat when to get wood and just about anything. I think I could come to that again. If the saying HISTORY REPEATS ITS SELF was only true and it would repeat soon.

Answer 3

I too wish i knew the true answer to that question my friend
I feel unlucky cuz I have big boobs and it seems 90% of the guys I date are only after good looks but you know what they say what goes around comes around so if a guy says he loves you and he cheats on you more than once let him go even if you truly love him and someday he may come back to you or the girl he loves may cheat on him no one gets away with hurting others feelings thats for sure and i sure do wish guys would be more considerate with our feelings and not so much with our bodies

Answer 4

Not all men are like that. There are a few evolved men in this world, but you're just running into the stereotypical man. Men are confusing creatures (as I'm sure they say the same thing about us HAHA), but to be honest...neither one of us will ever figure the other one out completely. And if we did, then the chase would no longer be fun.

Answer 5

i think you will find that there are lots of guys that dont think that way and the reason you cant find then is they are already taken --- there are unattached guys that love a lady for who they are and will concentrate only on them

and whats wrong with a guy that would like to see his lady dress sexy??? at least in private -- to me that is not something to be worried about

my lady is very chaste who i would never cheat on her --- i love her for who she is (she does not have fake boobs nor does she have large breasts)

20 years ago it was still the same --- 200 years ago and 2000 years ago --- its just more visible now

Answer 6

I think it is in part because guys are more visual creatures than we are. They have higher testosterone levels and think with their "other head" at times. Even the nice guys I know, who would not cheat and are good to their wives and girlfriends, seem to enjoy going to strip clubs and checking out sleazy women!
My 18 year old daughter is adorable and dresses conservatively and she said she feels like boys her age usually go for "hot" girls who dress inappropriately. I just tell her to be herself and maintain her high standards and she will find a guy who appreciates her for who she is. I admit, though, that she does seem to get less attention from boys than her friends who wear tight jeans and slinky tops.

Answer 7

I agree. And the sad thing is that men are the way they are and who knows why? I can't say that all men are like this but I haven't come across one that is 100 percent Real. I thnk that is one of the reasons more and more women are starting to become more and more like men. I guess they feel if you cant beat them join them. But don't ever settle for less than you deserve. Even if it means being by yourself.

Answer 8

What is the world coming to - I dread the day my daughter becomes a teenager and when she wants to go clubbing. I blame the women for putting up with it

Answer 9

This is long, bear with me.

A woman found a snake in the winter time that was freezing to death. Feeling sorry for the snake, she brought him in the house and put him next to the fire to warm him up. After she warmed him up, she fed him, and gave him drink, and nursed him back to health.

After a few hours the snake came up to the woman and bit her.

As she was dying she asked the snake, " I saved your life, I warmed you up, fed you, and nursed you back to health. Why did you bite me?"

To which the snake replied, "Because I am a snake, *****"

To which my answer is,"Because they are men *****"

Answer 10

I'm getting hot just thinking about how things will be even better for us guys in 10-20 years!