They took away my cell phone, im not allowed to use the house phone, and i can't go anywhere. Only because they don't want me to talk to my boyfriend who didnt do anything wrong. he was always nice to they and he even helped us move. After all the work was done my parents told me i couldn't see him anymore and can't talk to him. I didn't do anything wrong either i always did what i was told with no hassle and always have good grades in school. I even done things that weren't my job to do my whole life. It seems like they want me unhappy all they do is tell me to do stuff and yell at me. i don't understand i was actually happy for once in my life when i met my boyfriend because he actually listened to wat i had to say and respected it. He cared for me more then my parents ever did. When i would cry when things got really bad in my house. he would calm me down and tell me that everything would be ok. he would talk to me on the phone as long as he needed to to calm me down.
2006-12-30 04:15:51 · 29 answers · asked by confused by some1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey i know igzactly** how you feel...
My parents are always yellign at me, and my older sister never gets punished or yelled at...
and theyre always grounding me and yellign at me for the stupidest stuff on earth, such as, forgetting to take the trash out, leaving my light on in my bedroom when im not in there, closing blinds int he living room so i can see the tv...)
Stupid crap liek that, and i feel so unhappy with my life, and i dont know why to... like i feel really depressed and unhappy.
And when my parents ground me bad its like this
Wear all churchy super nice clothes to school, no computer, phone, cant go no were do nuthin, no internet, cell phone, video games, workout, sports... my mom is a psycho...
But ya it sucks really bad... im fortunatelly avoiding my mom and i havent been grounded in over 8 months! all ido is play it safe do what she sais, and try to avoid her and my family and it works great!
I am free!!!!
2006-12-30 04:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a matter of fact the happenings are not like the story you have written. May be some what truth over there. But this whole is one sided thing.
If you judge the issue on merit basis then your parents are right. They know better than you. Its a blind love feelings that you treat your parents like your enemy and the ONLY person in this world is your SO CALLED b/f.
Who is he to care of you? What relation has he got with you? Please open your mind and eyes and don't try to spoil your character, dignity, self respect.
Did you check what have you written is,'It seems like they want me unhappy all they do is tell me to do stuff and yell at me.'
Its 100 % wrong! None of the parents want that their sons and daughters be 'unhappy'.
2006-12-30 04:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder what their reason for keeping you away from him is. Maybe they are worried their daughter is growing up.. =)
Chances are, though, that they are being protective. Maybe they are afraid that you would do something that you would regret later; remember, they have many YEARS' more experience in life and love than you do, and despite what you say about him caring for you more than they ever did, it's simply not true: They had you, paid the hospital bills when they had you, bought diapers and cleaned you up, took you home and have fed you all your LIFE, bought you clothes, given you a warm place to LIVE for FREE, given you rides to places, paid your taxes, taken you to the doctor, made sure your eyes were okay, made sure your teeth were okay, taught you how to interact, etc, and they have done this for, what, over ten years? These people have a reason to protect you; they are putting in a lot of time into you! Talk to them--and LISTEN to what they say, and they might just see you as a maturing young adult instead of a complaining kid.
2006-12-30 04:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by imtheriddling1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents most likely think they are protecting you from this guy. or maybe they think he is to old for you. or they saw him do something they didn't care for. There could be any number of reasons they could have for not wanting you to see him. And I bet they love you more than you realize. Ask your Mom and Dad to sit down with you and talk about why they don't want you to see him, if you haven't already. Sometimes it isn't until a child moves away from home when they start understanding why Mom and Dad made the rules that they did. Most rules are made for the benifit and protection of the child. You take care and I hope things get better....
2006-12-30 04:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from what i read, you painted a really good picture of your boyfriend. He cares for you deeply. Since i don't know your parents, i don't know how to comment on that. Every parent is different.. However you know the old saying, there are two side to every story. I have only heard your side of the story. I am sure your parents have totally different things to say about the situation. I would talk to them and rationalize the problem. I hope that helped. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
2006-12-30 04:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding out the problem from where the whole issue started. It could be that you may have made them upset and that your bf is interfering too much in your life or in your house which your parents may not like it all. Secondly do not see too much into what your parents are doing to you. They are definitely helping you in some manner. they have basically done nothing wrong for which you should crib so much.
2006-12-30 04:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems odd, like maybe there is more to it? I can't say if it's "right", but they are your parents and do have that right. My niece is going through this and worse with her mom. Just know, no matter what this will pass and one day you will be completely responsible for you. I hope you can find that courage that you found from your b/f being able to listen to you, but within your ownself. Listen, you can never tell how the days going to end. Find your strength inside you, hold your head up and keep on chasing your dreams.
2006-12-30 04:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by peacegypsy@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might be doing the right thing but for sure not in a right way. they have to explain why they don'y like you to be with your boyfriend. As a parents they like to see you happy but I believe that they see something you cannot see because of your age. Respect your family and try to undrestand their reasoning. Good luck.
2006-12-30 05:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i don't think they were particularly right in this situation but maybe they found out something about him they didn't after all he did to help. or maybe they saw something in his behavior that triggered something that they didn't want their little girl to see him. what you want to do now is sit them down maturely without yelling or crying or complaining and ask them what happened and why you can't see them. parents do know best but you do have the right to know why they dislike him now. tell them if they don't give you a reason at all you will continue to see him.
2006-12-30 04:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by rmw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell. You have given only your opinion and your side of the story even though I'm sure your parents have told you why they don't like your relationship with him. Care to be honest and share with us why your parents say they don't like you talking to him?
2006-12-30 04:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Janet C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋