so sometimes i try to match my bf to be cute but then he'll go and change what hes wearing. whys he so afraid to match?
2006-12-30 04:08:08 · 33 answers · asked by yo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because he doesn't want his friends to make fun of him.
2006-12-30 04:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by mellokittyx4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are not twins and you are not 7 years old. There is no reason that the two of you need to match...He might not appreciate the fact that you try to make it look like you dressed him, when he actually has a fashion style of his own. Stop trying to be such a control freak about what he wears and by all means stop trying to dress like him or match what he is wearing. You are not one person and your need to mimic him or dress like him because you for some odd reason think it to be cute, is stripping him of his individuality...you'll never be the couple you want the two of you to be if you don't let him arrive at those terms on his own. You might already be on the way to losing him, so back off a bit...
2006-12-30 04:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to wear the same as ur boyfriends clothes... no offence but this is freaky. You don't have to look alike to be together. Just be yourself. This guy picked you because he fell in love with the real you not a copy of him. It's not what he wants and it means nothing so jst be yourself, be natural and have ur own style u dnt have to copy him, it'll only drive him away...
2006-12-30 04:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend match colors when we go out, but we both want it. Maybe before you try to match him you should ask him what he thinks or if he wants to. Once he feels like he is apart of the decision maybe he will just do it in the future or even ask you.
2006-12-30 04:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Marcella D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys have to make other people think that he controls stuff. If his boys see u matching then they'll think that he's gotten soft and he'll get mad and dump u. I think u can handle not matching for him.
2006-12-30 04:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because thats stupid he knows this . stop trying to match what the hell is wrong with you. that is the dumbest thing i heard an adult to. yes i saw where that queer justin and dumbass brit did it but they are both losers. so don't do it and you should go and give you bf some felatio for an "im sorry " . have a nice day.
2006-12-30 04:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea but it may be that he wants to be different and make a contrast between the two of you. Why? It is anybody's guess. Why don't you ask him? I am sure he would tell you why. After all, what has he got to hide?
2006-12-30 04:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's creepy and people will talk about you. Seriously. I had a friend who matched clothes with her boyfriend, and people slowly stopped talking to them because it was creepy and showed that they were no longer individual people.
2006-12-30 04:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very emasculating for a man to match his date. If one of my friends did that, I would make fun of him forever. Please, do your boyfriend a favor and chill on the matching clothes issue.
2006-12-30 04:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by Greg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dressing as the Bobsey Twins is a little "too cute" for most guys. Don't let it bother you.
2006-12-30 04:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is too "cute." My husband still does that most of the time, unless it is for Christmas, and I just beg him to wear the same color as us.
It is not manly, LOL.
2006-12-30 04:10:00 · answer #11 · answered by Kim S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋