me and my bf have been going out for about a month now n i think he is tring to get back at me because i mess with other guys n he doesn't like that so when i see him messing with other girls it really doesn't brother me because i am not the jealous type but he is so should i start getting jealous when he mess with other girls
2006-12-30 04:01:44 · 17 answers · asked by nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If by "messing with other girls" you mean he is screwing them, then yes, be jealous. If you just mean he is talking to them, what's the big deal?
2006-12-30 04:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by white.devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't bother you then don't worry about him even though he does get jealous. You see, he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. Know what I mean? In other words, he wants the freedom to see other girls but he wants you to stay true to him and not see any other guys. If he is going around seeing other girls, do you want him for a boyfriend? Do you trust him that nothing is going on behind your back? If he is doing this now what does this say about him if you even contemplated marrying him? Don't you think he would cheat on you and have affairs? I do. If this is the kind of guy you want then you must live with it and him. Otherwise, go find someone who cares about you and will love you no matter what and doesn't care about anyone but you.
2006-12-30 04:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea cuz he wants you to be jealous. Guys have complex minds. Just act jealous and he will think u have learned your lesson. but u could stop messing around with other guys.
2006-12-30 04:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Carly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing exactly what you do, (messing with others means what?) then you have no right to ask him to stop.
Besides, don't ask others if you should feel a certain way; If you aren't jealous, then you aren't jealous.
2006-12-30 04:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by captflapdoodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's pretty much your fault but just play the same game and if you and him r living together you should call guys in the middle of the night and he'll really think your cheating on him and will stop messing with gurls
2006-12-30 04:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I did but still that was only b/c he said "I would date your friend". And thats when I got jealous but u should only get jealous when he is flirting and calling u his sister. That happened to me and I dumped him even though I truly loved him.
2006-12-30 04:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i mean sometimes it's hard not to be jealous, but im sure you talk to other guys. he might have some friends that are girls & he isnt just going to stop talking to them because he's going out with you! your boyfriend has every right to talk to other girls & you shouldnt be jelouse unless he's flirting with them.
2006-12-30 04:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if u flurt with other boys then it's no use gettingmad if u know he doesn't like it stop doing it.If ur not tha jealous type don't start being.
2006-12-30 04:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by mzsweetpea91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is messing around, like making out, having s*x with the opposite s*x or just talking and giving them s&it?
2006-12-30 04:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should get jealous thats ur boyfiend and urs only, don't let him mess with other girls
2006-12-30 04:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by princess10196 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋