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I know this is the wrong forum to ask this question, but I would like some help. I have an 18 year old female dog who has been operated 5 times from removal of tumors (has three right now), was in chemotherapy, and who experienced her first epilepsy about three days ago. She has had two more since then because she is on medication. She has been crying, lost her sight, and cannot stand up by herself. She needs attention 24/7 which I don't mind. But today she has been crying too much, screaming for pain. She is going to the doctor for help. Should I put her to sleep?? My sister is giving up, she is suffering too much. I feel that the issue of euthanasia is here...I don't want to give up on her but she is suffering too much.

2006-12-30 03:59:46 · 20 answers · asked by ? 4 in Health Other - Health

Thank you all for your kind words (tears)...The doctor gave her some medicine to ease her pain..I'll keep you posted

2006-12-30 04:10:45 · update #1

My family and I decided to put my dog to sleep..I know she is in a better place. Thank you all for your kind words

2006-12-30 07:07:43 · update #2

20 answers

PLEASE, say goodbye and let her go...I lost 2 dogs (each 16 yrs) to cancer...when they get to where they cannot get up on their own, esp at that age, then keeping her alive is selfish...

Love her enough to set her free from her pain...she's lived a long life and brought you much joy...show her your love for her by letting her go...

"Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown..."

2006-12-30 04:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 3 1

18 years is a long life in dog years. Your dog has been around for a long time, she has lived a full life, way more than most dogs. I know how you feel about losing her, because she is not just a dog but a family member. I once had a cat that I had grown attached to, and my sister ran over him by accident, breaking both hind legs. I watched him suffer for a week. It was in the summer and he had compound fractures and infection was setting in. This was really painful to watch, because this cat was loyal like a dog. He would follow me everywhere I went and even try to attack my friends sometimes! I decide that the best thing to do was to put him down. Sometimes letting go is better.

2006-12-30 12:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by J-Blaze 2 · 1 0

If she is 18, she has already surpassed her life expectancy. At this point you have already kept her alive longer through operations and medication but if she is suffering I think it might be best that you let her go. I know it feels like a terrible thing but remember she would probably already be dead if it were not for medical intervention, and since there does not seem to be a chance of her recovering and enjoying her life, I think euthanasia is the most humane choice. Good luck.

2006-12-30 12:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I understand your dilemma as I had to have my 14 year-old cat put down and it was hard. But the main point of this is that your beloved dog is sick and she is crying to you for help to end her pain. Just knowing that my cat was in pain made me say "yes" right awayl I haven't always been this brave and with 2 other animals I waited till the last minute. But you have to keep the "pain" in your mind. Your dog will love you for it, believe me! Under these circumstances , you are not doing the wrong thing. She loves you and would appreciate this. I'm so sorry. Take care.

2006-12-30 12:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 1 0

I recently lost my cat under similar circumstances. She developed tumors, was operated on, but to no avail. She ate ravenously but couldn't gain any weight. I knew I should put her to sleep but I couldn't do it. And one morning when I got up she had stayed up through what must have been a horrible night, from evidences in the apartment--stayed alive only to see me one last time, and then went into convulsions and a coma in front of lme and died. I'm haunted by it. Have the vet give her a shot and be with her. You won't regret it. Good luck.

2006-12-30 12:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Antonio 2 · 1 0

im really sorry to hear about your dog.
i know its a very hard decision to put her asleep, i went through a very similar situation and its not easy to choose between the bad and the worse. i say the best thing is to put her asleep. when she goes to heaven she will take care of you from there and she wont suffer anymore :)
i thought i was selfish for trying to keep him here with me, of course, but Max was suffering far too much. i know hes not suffering anymore.

if you need to talk just hit me up and we can talk about how you feel and help you decide.

2006-12-30 12:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I am sorry to say this, but I think your dog should be put to sleep. Extreme operations like the ones you mentioned help for a while, but then the dog is in pain again.

Ask your vet to put her to sleep, you can stay with her and comfrot her, I really think it is for the best.

2006-12-30 12:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I know it's unbearable, but I do think you should have your dog put to sleep. She is suffering too much. I know you love her and you want what's best for her, so please take my advice. I believe in reincarnation- her spirit will come to you in some other form (possibly even a child). I'm very sorry about your dog.

2006-12-30 12:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 1 0

i lost my dog a few months ago and I'm heartbroken it was the right thing to do for her and she was out of her pain my jazz couldn't walk to but it was the worst thing Ive ever had to do it happened so quick and she was gone but now i have my memories and photos and i know it was the right thing to do you have to do whats right for her and you have to ease her pain I'm really so sorry for you there are no words that will ease your pain but you have to do whats right in your eyes no one else can make that decision because you have to live with it in the end good luck bless you both

2006-12-30 12:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by upyafartpipe 3 · 1 0

It sounds like the most loving thing you can do for you pet is put her down. take peace in knowing you gave her a wonderful life but now its time for her to move on. her quality of life is gone. put her to rest and out of pain. think of her pain before your own. I know it will be very painful to lose her but it is the best thing. All pet lovers will understand.

2006-12-30 12:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by msfitz 2 · 1 0

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