well this guy had a girlfriend for a couple months and they were dating 4 a couple months before we met personally i didn't like him but anyway roumors started 2 spread that he liked me.then he started to like flirt with me and all that kind of stuff but i didn't think 2 much of it 2 months later they break-up and now we still talk and hes still flirty with me and honestly i think he has a thing for me and every1 is saying they broke up because he liked me and his girlfriend was jelous.
2006-12-30 03:46:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no,your not a home wrecker if you weren't the one pursuing it.
You say you didn't think much of it? how did you handle his flirting?did you flirt back or tell him in a funny way,now now you have a girlfriend,be nice and laugh?
That would make her jealous,but if she is jealous now,2 months in a relationship,then he has bigger problems if he sticks with her.
But its not your fault either if you where flattered by it,that's human nature
Did you sneak around with him? joke
You realize,now that his girlfriend is out of the picture,and you date him,it will be confirmation that he did break up with her because of you.No one would even think,she had a jealousy issue to begin with,which personally i think she does.
Anything he did would eventually become an issue with her
I wouldn't give it much thought,if you didn't instigate anything,but if you like him,go for it
There relationship was only for a couple of months,not long enough to call it a home wrecker
2006-12-30 03:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by katy f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not your fault at all. As long as you didnt do anything more than just being there, then you did nothing. You can't help if someone feels something for you. Unless you became a flirt, went on dates, or asked him to break up with his girlfriend. You did nothing. If he likes you, what are you going to say "dont like me"? you cant you have to just keep going on. And if this man asks you out and you want to date him maybe give it soem time after the break up.
best of luck!
2006-12-30 11:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make you a home-wrecker. They were not married and you did not pursue him. You'll understand this better when you are older. Now that he is single, you are free to date him if you want to. It's not like you were chasing after him trying to break him and his girlfriend up. If people are claiming the break up to be your fault because this guy liked you better than his girlfriend, then they all need to grow up an comprehend that you have no control over what he wants nor do you have any control over his ex-girlfriend not keeping him happy and keeping his attention.
2006-12-30 11:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think it's your fault. How could you have helped it? That does not put you in the category as being a home wrecker! They were not married! If you were chasing a married man and you did not stop anything from happening knowing he was married. The you would be a home wrecker! You did nothing wrong!
2006-12-30 11:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong--so no, you are definitely not a homewrecker. It's not like you went out with him the same time he was with her. Of course his girlfriend would be jealous, but that is not your fault.
2006-12-30 11:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not! If you didn't do anything to really encourage the guy, then it was him! Not you!! But now that they are broke up~make sure he knows that you're not interested in him. Some guys tend to think that just because you are nice to them~you want them!
So be sure to let him know that you DON'T!!
2006-12-30 12:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by Donna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are being totally honest, then no you aren't a homewrecker. Besides I believe that there needs to be a marriage and kids in place for a home to be wrcked.
2006-12-30 11:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Xxar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault that he had feelings for you and broke up with her. It sounds like you played it cool and had nothing to do with the actual breakup.
2006-12-30 11:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they lived together--yes--cuz then you're like the serpent with the apple in the garden of Eden
if they didn't live together then it was open dating season and he just moved on.
and apparently you feel guilty or you wouldn't have to ask this ?
2006-12-30 11:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by lil'rusty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't done anything honey! If he has a thing for you then essentially its his problem, even if that was the reason they broke up, so dont worry!
2006-12-30 11:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by Error Child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋