I've been seeing this girl for a few months now, and she had some liquor at her one of her ex boyfriends house (10 whole dollars worth of it.)
So she asks me to drive her over there to get it, even though she doesn't even talk to the guy anymore.
What does this mean? I don't want to call her a retard, but I was kinda offended by it. Why would she even bother going there after all this time? Is she trying to prove something?
2006-12-30 02:51:08 · 21 answers · asked by Charlie C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're the one who is dense.
2006-12-30 02:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by HELL ON WHEELS 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Some girls enjoy the "thrill" of causing stuff between two guys over them. It is a phenomenon I do not understand, but they are out there and sounds like you have one!
How do you think some guy will react when you show up with her demanding a few bucks Worth of liquor???
Most men would be angry you had the nerve to invade their domain. She would have the "thrill" of manipulating the situation. I have known girls like this! Stay away, maybe you need to Find a new girlfriend.
I agree with a previous message, SHE MAY HAVE DRINKIN' PRBLEMS
2006-12-30 11:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by jamocha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the real answer behind all of that...
She wants to go over her ex boyfriends house with her new boyfriend so this will make her ex jealous... That is exactly what she wants to do.
You should just be like, I will give you the money to get more liquor. Why do you need to go to your ex's house for it.
She is just playing mind games with her ex... Obviously she wants to see what he is up to or try to make him jealous enough to come crawling back to her.
2006-12-30 10:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My ex-wife was like that.
She couldn't bear the thought of someone else benefiting from her hard earned cash.
If she asked her mum to buy a couple of hundred dollars worth of groceries etc. and there was going to be 90 cents change, she'd count the change! (mind you if the bill came to $200.15 her mum would ask for the extra 15 cents!)
She was earning well above the average wage and her mum was married to a man who earned like a ... (well like a bloke who worked his but off at a high earning job) so it wasn't like they were short of a penny.
If she's like that about 10 bucks of grog, she'll be even worse when you split up and have to divide **** like your house, your cars, your factory etc.
Drop her, mate, and run like the wind. There are plenty of worthy, sane, sweet women out there. (just leave one for me ok?)
2006-12-30 11:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be she liked the idea of you two meeting? It could be a bit of an ego boost to see you both snarling at each other. Tell her how you feel and that she should grow up. I can't believe you actually agreed to do it, you were right to feel offended.
2006-12-30 10:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shes trying to show him what hes missing. And also trying to show you off in the process. Simply put...she's a game player.
If it offends you..tell her. Her reaction will either put you at ease or make you wonder more. If you are wondering..there is more trouble ahead for you.
2006-12-30 10:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why did you take her? There is NO reason anyone should bring up an ex, no good reason anyway. Let alone have their current boyfriend take them over his house. WHO'S the fool here?
2006-12-30 11:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's going back because she still must feel something for him and you taking her there not only proved she was dense but, so were you as well.
2006-12-30 10:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by llldeliciously_kissablelll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if im kind of paranoid or something i would've thought that the girl is trying to find a way to see her ex again and like show off that she already has a new guy..
2006-12-30 10:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by natasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to be the one to break it to you, but she is still seeing this guy or at least communicating with him--that she feels comfortable enough to have you drive her over to his house/
It also shows that she doesn't have respect for you to ask you to do this...
2006-12-30 11:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by rkwj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, she isn't dumb. She just wants her liquor and doesn't want to see the ex. She is proud of you and wants you to get it.
2006-12-30 10:59:47 · answer #11 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋