I know I seem a little young to be dating since I'm only 12 (soon 13) but these days, kids my age starts dating and stuff. It's not so serious it's up to the point of sex, but I want to know how to get my bf to hold my hand? He's not shy with me, he puts his arm across my waist and he puts his head on my shoulder when we sit next to each other; or if I should make the first move, how should I do it? I even made the first move of hugging him already, so I kinda want him to make the move first this time..but would I seem to be too impatient and rushing this relationship if I become too obvious of having him hold my hand? We only been together for a week.
2006-12-30 02:26:37 · 12 answers · asked by Sarahie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i am 12 too and i have a b/f and we hold hands and huge and i put my head on his shoulder but he dosent put his arm around me.lol maybe he is scared my b/f was too but after the first time we held hands it got alot easier trust me. just wait until u seem comforable and just grab his hand. GOOD LUCk!!!!
2006-12-30 02:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by hopeybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into things, you're gonna have plenty of time to get involved with many guys. You're only 12-13, don't try to grow up too fast. I'm sure you have a lot of things you wanna do in life, don't waste time having relationships and getting a broken heart. Do what's gonna make you happy and Don't listen to these morons that told you to have him touch your boobs and touch his dick. they are just seeing if you will fall for their stupidity. Good luck sweetie!
2006-12-30 02:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, girl, holding hands isnt really a big deal, but at ur age, maybe it is, if u think that u are ready to hold hands, just do, it seriously. grad his hand, putting his head on ur shoulder is more sexual then holding hands
2006-12-30 02:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by samantha_toft 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, first off make sure you always look extremely sexy so that he actually touchs you in front of others to claim whats his. like by holding your hand, etc. you have to feel his arms and tell him how sexy he is. eventually he'll start to hold your hand and hug you and stuff. putting his head on your shoulder is stupid, are you his mom? tell him straight out, lets $^$^#&&$ no just jokin, you know, it'll happen/// just stop rushin
2006-12-30 02:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush? Slow is nice. When you get older you'll be wishing for a guy that likes to take things slow. Don't be so fast to have sex. Believe me you will have plenty of chances as you get older.
2006-12-30 02:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't but u can make help him by grabing his hand and holding it. And the rest is up to him. I did that with my bf too. It works. Good Luck.
2006-12-30 02:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, this isn't all about you. Have you considered his feelings? Maybe he isn't comfortable with having a physical relationship yet. You need to repect HIS feelings, just as you would want hiim to respect yours.
2006-12-30 02:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take hold of his hand. When you're alobe together, do what "Christina H" tells you to - she's got it exactly right.
Jennie
2006-12-30 02:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just grab his hand or tell him to hold your hand.
2006-12-30 02:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ just a girl ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wots up with you guy shes 12!!!!!
Hold his hand and leave it at that PLEASE!
2006-12-30 02:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋