MY GIRLFREIND WHO WAS MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE. HAD MY SON WHO WAS BORN IN L.A. IN THE EARLY 80'S IN JULY. SHE GAVE HIM UP FOR ADOPTION AT BIRTH AND MY NAME IS NOT ON THE BIRTH CERTIFCATE. I LIVE IN FLORIDA AND THIS HAPPENED IN CALIFORNA. I DONT KNOW WHAT HOSPITAL HE WAS BORN IN I DON'T EVEN KNOW HIS NAME, SO HOW WHO I GO ABOUT FINDING HIM? I AM BLACK AND SHE WAS PART MEXICAN AND GERMAN HE WAS BORN JULY 3RD
2006-12-30 02:15:48 · 6 answers · asked by Kevin S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try getting an attorney, they can get court orders for certain information you will need. You can also hire a private investigator. They have ways of finding people too. Otherwise try to get as much info as you can from her or her family old friends etc. It will not be easy any way you go but, if you work at it hard enough you will hopefully find him.
2006-12-30 02:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this law applies in L.A., but in my state there is a law that says whoever the mother is married to at the time the child is born is the child's legal father.
There are also laws involving "abandonment" when a parent makes no effort to see the child in a period of something like a year.
You could, though, try contacting adoption agencies in the state he was adopted. There can only be so many of them; and these days, with emphasis on children's presumed need to meet biological parents, maybe someone would try to help.
2006-12-30 02:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tricky question.. and your ex spouse sounds like a real douche. what style of mom does not want her baby because of the fact he/she wasnt fathered by potential of the guy she had concept. Thats superb to me, pondering the baby is 14! WTF. even if if, as a baby of a gay father I remember the day i found out (i exchange into 9). i exchange into on the coastline and that i observed my dad (he didnt know i exchange into there) kissing yet another guy. i exchange into mortified because of the fact I didnt know what exchange into happening, as quickly as he sat me down and defined that some adult men love women folk and different adult men love adult men each and every thing exchange into nice. even yet it exchange right into a splash harder for my brothers to acept it, at last they observed that love is love. i think of it is significant which you detect a thank you to speak on your son approximately your boyfriend first and then ask him if he needs to fulfill him.
2016-12-31 07:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by gerda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting in contact with your exgirlfriend and ask her to give you as much information as she can. it will be pretty impossible if you don't know the hospital where he was born or his name. good luck.
2006-12-30 02:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if this would work but try getting an investigator of some sort.that is what they said they would use to find my father....hope that helps?
2006-12-30 02:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by kelsie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO SEE HIM NOW
YOU MADE THE MISTAKE WHEN YOU HAD HIM
2006-12-30 02:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋