Well there is this guy that is 15 who just moved to my school and i am 13 we have known each other for a few months. We have become good friends and he comes over but when ever he comes over my house we start making out. i don't like him it's weird because sometimes i want to but most the time i feel uncomfotable even more when my friends are around. i havnt done anything with him it's just he trys to presure me into things and i'm too young. Sometimes he makes me feel really happy. he is good looking, has met my family and is smart. He has asked me out but i dont know what to say! please help
2006-12-30 01:42:53 · 16 answers · asked by Maybe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him I can't date until I'm 16. For sure, say "NO" to sex. You are way too young and you will get pregnant and ruin your life. Tell him you have decided to abstain from sex until marriage. This will slow him down or send him down the chain of girls.
Also, 15 is too young for a boy to be having sex. If he got a girl pregnant, how would he support her and the baby.
Slow this relationship down and only you can do it.
2006-12-30 01:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really obvious you are way to young and immature to be jumping into where you are already at. you stated "he comes over and we start making out, i dont like him its weird because sometimes i want to but most the time i feel uncomfortable" that says you cant control your own curiousities, so where does that leave you when he really starts applying the pressure? It leaves you somewhere that you can never return from, and most likely forced into something that is only turned around on you to make you feel guilty for. Walk away and relax, the race is long you have plenty of time to be an adult.
2006-12-30 09:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by georgestrait66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that he needs to find someone else. If he is pressuring you then he wants to do things that you evidentally do NOT WANT tol do. You are in charge here... TAKE CHARGE! He can be told, and should be. This is your life young lady. I suggest that you begin reading and studyibg the BIBLE with some local group of non-denominational Christians. There should be a non-denominational church listed in the yellow pages somewhere near your home. Find someone that will NOT try to dominate you. Take time and think this out on your own. Have a great week!
Eds
2006-12-30 09:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if you are really 13 this is crazy.
Umm, you definitely shouldn't be hanging around a guy who is 15 who is pressuring you into things. Two years is a big difference at that age because guys usually only think of one thing when they are teenagers.
My advice is that if you feel pressured by him to do things then you shouldn't hang out with him.
2006-12-30 09:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dirty.Little.Secret. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel pressure from him, then tell him to back off. You can go out with him later on if you feel that he is the right fit for you, but don't let him make you do something you are not comfortable with. It's good that you realize that you are still young and have time to do the right thing. I'm not saying dump him, but ask him to slow it down and back off sometimes. If he doesn't respect your decision, then maybe he's not the one.
2006-12-30 09:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by LW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be pressured to do anything you dont want to do. If the pressure continues let him know that you do not like him pressuring you. You are very young and it would probably be best to break up this relationship as soon as possible. Seek your parents advice.
2006-12-30 09:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by kimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never go on a date unless you are 100% sure about the boy/man
and never let yourself get pressured into anything that you dont feel comfortable with even if he is charming and good looking but all feelings must mutual for anything sexual to continue
2006-12-30 09:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by e715000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like him so what are you hanging out with him for. Don't waste your time when someone else is right around the corner thinking about how to connect with you.
2006-12-30 09:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah!...that is...um...that is some effed up manure....wow....i did not need to know that....but...too late now...DON'T GO WITH HIM.
he pressures you to do things too early....he might get u pregnant! and if you don't feel totally good and confident with him then DUH he is not the one for you.....he is good looking, met ur family, smart....big deal! do you think he has what it takes to be a father at such a young age....and why does my question mark suddenly not work___ it leaves these blanks..._____
2006-12-30 09:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ψ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a big girl now; stop playing the victim. He's safer away from you.
2006-12-30 09:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋