i had a gf and last jan she got married(it was our mutual decision coz our family was against it and we both decided to remain just frds n she got married)
i think she is ignoring me n dont want me anymore in life(its my thinking).all my frds says that she is rite..she has moved on n i shd move as well but i just cant. i will love her forever bt i dont have any complain with her just few questions in my mind hope u gals can answer it.pur urself in her place an answer.1)i miss her alot..u also still miss me? 2)i will always keep u in my heart n wants to be ur frd..wat u think of me? 3)do u feel like meeting me or contacting me?4)do u still remember that lovely time we had together? 5)u have started loving ur husband now, so wats my place in ur life? pls answer these question i will be highly thankful. i miss her alot. i love her and will love forever
2006-12-30 00:30:56 · 17 answers · asked by cuttienayan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about that I answer the question for you in a paragraph and like she is talking.....
Yes I miss you and I think of you often, yet being friends with you would be impossible for me, yet I will too hold you in my heart. We have had such wonderful times together and it still hurts that our family was against us being together, and it took all my strength to move on. And now that I have moved on, I have created a new life for myself and my husband who loves me very much and I love him. I cannot meet with you, I am sorry, it would bring old feelings and that would not be fair to my husband.....I am sorry, but you will always have a special place in my heart and I think of you often....The best thing for you to do is to move on also, and keep the memories of us in your heart.
2006-12-30 00:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she would say "yes" she would still want y in her life ,OH...,HERE COME THE TEARS,Im sure by the way u say u feel,u 2 must have had something only found by the grace of God so therefore,contacting her would get the rest of your questions answered.Since she feels like u,Im sure she remembers all the times u both shared.If u really cared 4 her u should tell her because she is probably lost f answers:remember friendship is acceptance of each other & support when needed which is always.
2006-12-30 09:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends and that's all there is to it. You run into each other now and then, you say hi and how are you? You smile at each other and then you part company. Be happy for her!! Be the FRIEND that you say you are, let her be the WIFE to her husband that she needs to be. You two made your decision and parted. Now it's your turn to find that one special person for your life!! Stop living in the past, because it's gone now.
The questions you want answered, are questions, that no longer apply to her and she shouldn't be saddled with.
I don't mean to be sharp or un-caring, but the playing field has changed, she is in another world altogether than yours. Her thoughts should be about her Husband and vice-versa. You on the other hand can not step into that arena.
2006-12-30 08:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by dontwobears@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just move on and find your own happiness. Someone will come along. And you won't even remember the feelings you have for her. Even if you do get back together it just won't be the same. You will always wonder if she thinks about him. I'm sure she still thinks about you, and I bet her marriage won't last very long in the mean time try to meet someone new
2006-12-30 08:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by laashley222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you make me sick, sorry, but let her live her life, she's married, meaning she has somebody with her and no inclination of wasting her time thinking of her high school boyfriend. She probably doesn't wanna meet someone who wants to end her relationship, that's what you want, right? Be happy for her and move on with what little dignity you have left. I know this is a guy's answer but it won't get much different, trust me.
2006-12-30 08:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal that yu should still want to love her but yu should try and move on just as she has done. Trying to live ur past is only going to hurt you and mind you, you will never be with her again. Try and forget her...but yu can keep the good memories! thats life..its full of ups n downs! Get over her and live your life!!
2006-12-30 09:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by vufdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she knows all these feelings you have and understands that it can't be mixed with a marraige. she knows she's had to make a choice, even if it was painful for her, she can't expect her marraige to work if she is still seeing you.
whilst it will hurt like hell, you need to respect her decision and step back. by keeping in contact with her like you want, isn't going to help you in anyway. it will just continue to hurt and you wont be able to find a new happiness.
keep your memories, but accept them as part of your life's past, and let go.
love her enough to let her make the most of her marraige.
2006-12-30 09:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love your ex girlfriend and you want her to be happy, then let her go. all these questions you want answered only show how selfish you are. She has moved on, she is happily married to a guy she loves, and she deserves to be happy. if i were in her shoes, then i would not even answer any of your questions. so, you want her to be happy, LET GO! and move on with your own life.
2006-12-30 09:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) i'll never forget you coz you've been a part of my life. 2)sure why not... i'll alwayz love you if not romanticaly as a frnd wil do. 3)
a little but i'll not do that coz we both hav our own lives now...
4)i'll alwayz treasure that moments we spend together 5) even if i've started to like him ur still alwayz in my heart......
life must go on... move on... date other girls and keep yourself busy in order to forget her!
2006-12-30 08:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by niknak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1, I will miss you as my friend
2. There will always be a place for you in my heart
3. No.I would not want to mislead you.
4.I will remember all of our times fondly
5.Only in my heart.
2006-12-30 08:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋