i am curious.. coz i want to get my boyfriends love and attention back...
2006-12-30 00:13:01 · 18 answers · asked by mS.mYstEriOus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always be different.
I highly suggest reading The Valley of the Moon, by Jack London. It portrays the idea most clearly, and is a great novel.
2006-12-30 00:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Esse Est Percipi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. That will get his attention. Ignore him, don't take his calls and force your self to not see him for a couple of weeks. That is long enough. He will be so curious to find out what is going on with you and then you have his attention. DO NOT tell him you want him to LOVE you. It won't happen. Tell him instead that you have been busy with "whatever you were doing, visiting friends, reading a good book, studying etc. and that you didn't have your cell phone on." AVOID him and when you do see him smile very sweetly and say hi but don't get into any conversations with him. Always be a bit rushed and tell him you will see/talk to him later. This will get his attention. Maybe then he can re-evaluate his feelings towards you. Maybe then you can talk to him about your concerns.
2006-12-30 08:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by amazedmaize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no forcing any one to have feelings for you.
however, don't beg, grovel or plead for his attention and love in any way. this never works - you'll be more like a small annoying dog he can't shake off from hanging on his ankle (sorry, not actually likening you to a dog!!).
be friendly and nice when you see him, but unaffected by not being with him. he may be again triggered into wanting to win you over again instead.
but, if it's because of something you've done wrong in the relationship, then apologise and be open about your true feelings.
it hurts, i know to lose hold of the one we really love. but, be true to yourself; are you wanting him back because he is just perfect for you, or is it more out of a need to feel loved and not rejected.
good luck.
2006-12-30 08:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by noodle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah u dont really want him... u prob jus want the closeness again ..i dont knw how long u have broke up but focus on the things that matter to u (apart from him) ..as in what you want from life... and before u know it.. what usually happens with guys is that they get to hear how well u r doing and will be right back knocking at ur door...
2006-12-30 08:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by shaz1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypnosis...! Other than that, he's probably moved on from you and is looking for something different. Sadly you're probably in his "been there, done that" file. Guys don't usually go back because they re-fall in love with you. It's usually for some familiar nookie. So either get set to be used by him or move on with your love and affection.
2006-12-30 08:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out his true desires, write to him, call him just to say you love him, buy him something that shows you care! make him feel like the only one for YOU in the world, make him feel that Without him your world would end, make him know your always going to be there, and that he'll always have "All of You"
Kriss A.
2006-12-30 08:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by theurbsoweit 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One can not "make" someone else fall in love with them just like that. Either it happens, or it doesn't. Just give your heart to your boyfriend unselfishly, and hopefully he'll reciprocate.
2006-12-30 08:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to get on with your life, and maybe when he sees this he will think about what he misses with you, but dont be so obvious with trying to get him back, you will drive him further away.
2006-12-30 08:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We can change a man's heart, but if you want to fight for him, try to understand what are his interests and try to let him know that you care so much for him, and specially, give him a space to share with his male friends.
2006-12-30 08:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Leslita with love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone.
You can't make someone fall in love with you. They either do or they don't. Even if they are in love with you, there is no guarantee they'll act on it.
2006-12-30 08:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋