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can my partner give me a STD if hes my first and ONLY? ive been reading alot of stuff lately, and what ive concluded, is that STDs form in your body after youve had more than 1 un protected sex ( it says that though with more than one person)

to make my question more clear: if both me and my partner are REAL vergins, and we have unprotected sex with eachother (till th day we die, only the two us) can he or i give him, a STD?

if you awnser this question you MUST have a source from a profetional to back ur awnser up! this is important

2006-12-29 06:22:10 · 13 answers · asked by Ovan Maru 2 in Health Diseases & Conditions STDs

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You are mostly safe so long as you are absolutely sure that you and your partner never have sexual contact with anyone else. However, you can't be 100% safe so long as you are having sex, but this is true with or without protection.

There are ways to get STDs that do not involve sex, but they are not common. There was a time when blood transfusions could transmit AIDS. Now, this only happens in 3rd world countries. Also, if yourself or your partner works in a hospital or is exposed to bodily fluids or is an IV drug user you could be at risk.

There are minor infections that can start without sex, like a yeast infection, and then be transmitted sexually. However, these are not the serious STDs like AIDS and Syphillis.

2006-12-29 06:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by inkantra 4 · 1 0

STD stands for "Sexually Transmitted Disease" and therefore it is transmitted by sex. But that dos not mean that it cannot be transmitted other ways as well. For example, AIDS can be considered an STD and yet it can also be transmitted by mixing bodily fluids - transfusions, dirty needles, etc. which does not involve sex at all. Herpes can also be transmitted by touching or, for oral herpes, kissing. So, yes, you could be a virgin, you might never have engaged in sex, yet you could have something that could be classified as an STD. It's just that sex brings two bodies close together, with no protection, and is the most prevalent method of transmission. Don't risk it until you are married with a partner that you trust and who has been tested for STD's.

2006-12-29 06:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You read the book wrong then. You can get an STD from one time, with one person who is infected. If you have never been with anyone but your boyfriend and you got an STD, then he's been with someone else. There is no other way for it to have happened, unless you were with someone else also. If you were both truly virgins, then it would be impossible for either one of you to get an STD. Now, the question is, why would you be so stupid in this day and age knowing what you know, to trust your LIFE to some guy claiming to be a virgin, and have unprotected sex????? Do you want to end up pregnant too??? And not fully understanding how everything works, shows you were to young to be out there having sex!

2006-12-29 06:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0 1

Yes it is. For example; one of you could have gotten AIDS from a different source like blood. The thing is, some STDs come from more than just sex. The reason they are called STDs is because sex is one of the ways they can be transmitted. Sometimes people are born with STDs.

2006-12-29 06:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Titainsrule 4 · 0 0

The only way to know is for both of you to be tested to be free of asll STD's. I know someone who was born with syphillis & only accidentally found out! she wasn't into drugs or anything like that either (she hadn't had any sex before). it is a very low probablity that you or ur partner have any STD's but better to check it out. Some poeple even have picked up Hepaititis from non-sexual contact (again it's a very low probablity).
Please ignore my advice if it doesn't make sense.

2006-12-29 06:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It all depends if you are HIS first and only...if not you don't need any literature to prove it can be transmitted from him to you. If he's been messing around then you can certainly catch whatever he has...even if you've only done it once. If you both are virgins and if , as you say, stay faithful to him only and vice versa, then you're pretty much in the clear and have a wonderful thing going with no worries. Unless of course he gets it from a transfusion. BUT that would be rare nowadays considering how stringent the screening process is in detecting those things.

2006-12-29 06:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by garo g 3 · 0 0

STD's are caused by bacterium or viruses. They don't care about the who what, why, or how of your relationships or the color of your beloved's underwear.
Wake up, and GET TESTED! ABSTINENCE is the most effective deterrent to catching an STD, but condoms (if properly used) might give you better odds of NOT contracting an STD IF you know how to properly use them.
Best Wishes for a Happy New Year!

2006-12-29 06:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by chuck U 5 · 0 0

That would probably be true, except for the possibility of getting STD's another way - like through blood transfusions, infected needles (if a drug user), or just LYING about having never had sex with anyone else -- sorry, it happens!!

Check this link for a lot of really good info on STD's.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/default.htm

2006-12-29 06:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 1 0

Your question's already been answered, but I'd like to add that AIDS cannot be transmitted by mosquitos. Totally not true.

Anyway, your chances are slim, but there's no true way to know if your partner's really a virgin. I know that's not what you want to hear, but it's the truth. There are so many people who've caught STDs from their "virgin" or "faithful" partners.

2006-12-29 06:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by sous_lepontmirabeau 3 · 0 0

If you only had sex with each other and that was it, I would say there is a very small chance... If something odd happened like blood mixed with someone or something crazy, like you are sharing needles with other people. Then you could... but if you are true soulmates and staying together forever, I would think you should be fine.

2006-12-29 06:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jyse 6 · 0 0

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