I'm13 and I'm thinking about having unprotected sex
2006-12-28 18:03:46 · 20 answers · asked by `~beautiiful~` 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
If you love syphilis too.......
2006-12-28 18:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body is not too young to get pregnant, but you and the baby will not develop properly because you are still growing. Even if he pulls out, you can still get pregnant.
He can have a disease and not know it. Most people don't have symptoms for a while, and some people never get symptoms, but you can still catch it from him and get very sick.
Unprotected sex is not the ultimate way to show how much you love someone. It's hard when you feel very, very strongly and you want to show it in a very real way, but unprotected sex isn't it. You need something solid, not something every dumb animal can do. Love is bigger than that, and lasts longer.
2006-12-29 02:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Leah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not recommend it. Unprotected sex does not measure how much you love some one. Having unprotected sex can show that your partner does not care about you because you are at risk of STD's and having a baby. I think you need a heart to heart with your mom to get some good advice on this topic.
If you are not old enought to face your mom, then you surely are not old enough to have sex.
2006-12-29 02:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all your 13- you should be playing not having sex. If you think you might love someone your not ready. Having unprotected sex can cause alot of things that can ruin your future. First and foremost you can get pregnant, then STD's, and you can even get HIV/ AIDS. Just dont do it until your older and you know your in love with someone. Being in love is what makes it all worth while. If you have sex now youll be labeled. Guys talk exspecially 13 year olds.
2006-12-29 02:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by lithdailums7@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy,!!!!!! never have unprotected sex no matter how old you are. the is pregnancey aids, hurpies that kill you or never go away plus the are dozens of other diseases that a pill cant cure, darling you are only 13 why would you want to have sex anyway. can you amagine your self with a baby 24hours a day 7 days a week dont forget he wil leave you because they all do at that age.no matter what he says, ill tell you something sex isnt that good at that age you are to emotionly young to enjoy making love and what realy means eapecialy to guys p.s remember all guys think of sex as sex,no emotions, as for girls we think of sex as a way to express our love very emotional.
2006-12-29 03:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by katheren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never ok to have unprotected sex. You open yourself up to too many potential issues or problems. There are the risks of diseases, such as AIDS or HIV. You can also catch other diseases that could leave you sterile in the future. Love doesn't protect you physically against things. Use a condom. It will protect you against disease and unplanned pregnancy.
2006-12-29 02:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bridget C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gona tell you 13 is to young u already know but i will tell u aids and warts and cooter rot dont care if you love him or not here ask you self this remember think back to the sickest you've been in your entire life now imagine double that until you die ma bey years but in reality if your partners white and as young as you are then the chance is very low they have any diseases no im not racist just the fact is for different races are different chance they have aids only safe way without protection is use your hand ............after u washed it
2006-12-29 02:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not okay to have unprotected sex ever. not even if you think you love the person. first of all your 13 and your too young to be having sex(but hey its your decision) this guy who your thinking about doing it with could be lieing to you ,using you, and not love you. and wouldn't you rather be safe and not have to worry about having an std that never goes away. what if you got aids ,you can dye or even worse get and std and bring a baby into the world and give them aids. better to be protected then sorry later. who cares what the guy says about it feels better not to use a condom . if he cares about you he will use one. always carry them with you if you are going to have sex. also you need to start going to the gynocologist if your having sex. if you dont want your parents to know then go to a clinic or talk to your counsler (nurse)they are obligated to your privacy.
2006-12-29 02:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13, your going to be in love many times. your 13, are you ready to be a mommy? wait till you are married then have unprotected sex. Just because the boy will tell you it is better without the condom, and it will feel better don't do it. Save yourself for when you are really in love.
2006-12-31 20:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by just_acali_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!! In the first place you are too young for sex. You are too young to know love. Have you thought of what would happen if you get pregnant or a venereal disease? You better tell your mom what you are thinking and learn to enjoy your youth while you can.
2006-12-29 02:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by ruth4526 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ..to tell you the truth its not a wise thing at your age to do .I have done it all my life with a few exceptions.. very few and have been very lucky but well im still alive and so far i dont think that i have had anything or anything is dormant in me..but it can lay dormant for many years .. and also you can be a carrier for sexually transmitted disease and never know it..its really dangerous sweetie so i wouldn't but its your life..use it wisely ..i have just been really blessed and to tell you the truth i dont know how because i have run big risk.
2006-12-29 02:08:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋