I know i am probably worrying too much, but i have had oral with my boyfriend, we havent had sex..and i was wondering if it was possible for him to have HIV although he has never had sex before or had any other sexual contact with a girl apart from me, he says he doesnt have it because he is a virgin and he says he has had blood tests for his back before and he didnt have HIV in his blood, i wasnt planning on having sex with him yet, but is there a chance he could have it or not? I know that stis can be passed on from oral though and i will use a condom in the future.
2006-12-26 03:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Regardless of your boyfriend's virginity, if he has the HIV virus, he can pass it along to you. That virus is usually transmitted by intimate contact, although mothers can also pass it along to their unborn children.
A good way to be sure is saying, "Someday, we may want to be really intimate. Before that day ever comes, I want to be sure I'm healthy enough to deserve you, so I'm going to go take a blood test. Will you come with me and take a blood test, too?"
2006-12-26 03:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Stuart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! If your boyfriend has used IV drugs in the past, was born with HIV he can pass it on to you through sex. Also, if he's not being honest and has had sex with someone else (male of female) he can contract the virus and pass it on. If he has no reason to be concerned, why is he being tested for HIV? I would seriously reconsider sex with him, oral or otherwise, until you know all the facts!
2006-12-26 03:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by myepley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your b/f is a intravenous drug user there is a possibility he could get HIV. Sex isn't the only way to get HIV but unless he is participating in high risk behavior he should be fine but a test never hurts.
2006-12-26 03:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by insd92104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does a back have to do with blood test for HIV?
standard back problem do not require HIV testing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
he could have been born with it.. or used IV drugs... or gotten it form anal sex which most people would still say they are a virgin...
apparently you believe the virgin thing which is ok... but still for your peace of mind you should get tested at the same time and look at each othere test... also their are other STDS he could have and still be a virgin oral sex can pass all kinds of things... so he still shoule using a condom for that...... be wary of someone not willing to do what it takes to make you comfortable.
2006-12-26 03:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
while condoms are used wisely and continuously, they decrease your possibilities of transmitting AIDS via greater desirable than ninety 8%. that's achievable to bypass years, or perhaps continuously, having risk-free intercourse along with your substantial different, and not get AIDS. however, the possibility will continuously be there. additionally, do no longer USE greater desirable than one CONDOM at as quickly as, OR SPERMICIDE. utilizing greater desirable than one condom at a time motives friction by using fact the layers of latex rub mutually, and would ruin the two condoms. utilizing spermicide does kill lots of the AIDS virus germs, yet it additionally motives inflammation sores interior the vagina, that can surely strengthen your possibilities of catching AIDS, by using fact the germ would have an instantaneous line into your physique for the duration of the sore.
2016-10-19 00:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whew... sounds like your a bit paranoid.. relax some. if he's a virgin, the chance of him having any type of STD is extreemly slim. If he has an STD, it would have to come from him getting a blood transfusion, or if he's been kissing or doing something else with an infected person. It's okay to be careful and know where your partner has been. best of luck to both of you.
2006-12-26 03:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by TC_43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he can still get it without having sex if someone who has it has a cut and he has an open cut and they touch him he can get it so you can get it without doing it. I would make him take a test and show you the results before you guys do it.
2006-12-26 04:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by colormespoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking the question why don't you just do some research, you will learn more that away.
2006-12-26 03:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if he is Junkie or drug user. It sounds from your question that both of you are cautious and therefore there should be no problem
ENJOY.
2006-12-26 03:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by teddybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. It can be transfered through birth so if his mother had it he most likely has it too
2006-12-26 03:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋