am worried?

Question

ive been with that guy for a cpl of months now..he's a decent guy..kindda shy and not a player..not the type how's like..sleepin around..
so i gave him a cpl of handjobs b4..and i wasnt worried bout STDs cuz its just handjobs..but then i gave him a blow j0b like..twice..no condom..and now am worried...i rlly trust him and i think if he had any STDs he'd tell me..but am worried tht maybe he have somethin and he doesnt kno about it..
ive never had sex ed n skool..so i dont rlly kno about this stuff..and dont kno wut symptoms i cud be getting as a warning..
so if someone cud tell me is there any symptoms to getting a specific STD?? and am rlly embarrased of askin him to put a condom on just for a blow j0b..HELP!!


P.S.....no need for "grow up" comments cuz am 18..maybe its just tht my english isnt so good so thts why i sound immature..

thnx alot

Answer 1

just get yourself checked out and see what's up. there is a chance you could have gotten something, and a chance you didn't. but you have to go with your gut if you feel something is wrong it usually is. it isn't about him telling you, because honestly people don't always know. a lot of stuff that get's passed, the only real symptoms is that someone else they were with started showing signs of it. look at it that way.

symptoms are usually something showing up on your mouth or down there that wasn't there before, some bump or rash or lesion or something. you have any of that get checked out now while it's still early in it's stages.