I've got these red bumps on/around my vagina and im not sure what they are. I've had sex with my boyfriend before and my [mom] knows only about a few times. I was a virgin until him and hadn't done much with a guy. He has had sex with a few girls but it was like 2 years ago.... We have been together for 5 months. He doesn't think he has any diseases and i dont either since he was my first. He's not posative tho. I cant really go to the doctor because i dont have insurance until january, thank goodness its only like 10 days or so away. I know i need to go to the doctor, but im not sure what to tell my [mom]. These bumps really itch at times and it hurts when i sit down. They're spreading and i dont know what they're from. Does anyone know what this could possibly be? Or why this is happening? What should i tell my mom? PLEASE HELP.
2006-12-21 14:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by itslove2378 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
If you can't get checked out til Jan., tell your boyfriend to get tested because if he's done things with other girls it's possible he has a disease, he's basically had sex with the other guys that had sex with the girls he had sex with, and the girls those guys had sex with, etc.. so yeah and if he has it you need to go to the Gyn. and hope you have something curable..
2006-12-21 14:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by hmackewich03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a yeast infection. Do you have a discharge like cottage cheese, sweety? Another question and it may seem really personal: Do you shave down there? Sometimes if you do and especially for the first few times, it can cause red raised bumps that will itch and burn. That will hurt to sit down too. Wearing jeans that are too tight can cause a yeast infection. You need to wear some loose fitting cotton white panties for a bit and have your mom buy you a yeast infection kit at the drug store. It can't hurt to try and see if it clears it up. If it helps at least you'll be comfortable for Christmas, honey! If it doesn't then you can go see a doc when your insurance kicks in. It always helps to have a close relationship with your mother. She can't stop you from what you are doing, but she can be the cushion that you fall back on when things go wrong. I have a 15 year old daughter myself.
2006-12-21 15:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell your mom that you need to go to the doctor, riight away because you might have an STD. What you are describing
sounds like the start of genital warts. Genital warts are caused by some strains of the HPV virus. This virus can cause cervical cancer in women. Cervical cancer can be fatal. Ie: you could die.
Guys can carry the virus without having any symptoms for years.
Chances are you got it from your boyfriend.
There isn't much that can be done for genital warts. They can prescribe creams or use laser surgury to remove them.
You'll always have the virus though and get outbreaks every so often. You can also spead them to anyone else you have sex with, even if you use a condom.
2006-12-22 02:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by txharleygirl1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not an advocate for planned parenthood but I think they might be able to help you. I have a 16 year old boy and when I took him to the doctor ,I was informed that things of sexual nature are covered under doctor patient privilege. Meanwhile you can go to the pharmacy and they do sell vaginal itching cream. It sounds like you might even have an yeast infection. Go on the internet and see if that or something else might fit your symptons. At least get the vaginal itching cream to ease your pain. Try a little corn starch there too to sooth your pain. I remember back in the old days when a baby had a diaper rash they would use corn starch to help heal it.Wear cotton panties too. And for gosh sakes go see the doctor to see if you are ok don't second guess your health.
2006-12-21 15:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by baglady2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You DEFINITELY NEED to tell your mom! You probably have an STD. It sounds like Herpes or something of the like. Tell her and go to the doctor IMMEDIATELY. Some STDs (caused by bacteria) can be cured, but others are with you for life.
2006-12-21 15:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by mo_c_mo33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having sex anyway?
(1.) tell your mother whats going on in your life and why you feel you need to have sex .
(2) Go to the doctors cecause it sounds like you have herpes.
(3) Get rid of your boyfriend he's oviously having sex with other girls besides you.
(4) Go to church.
2006-12-21 15:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by deezee 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need to tell your mom ASAP and your boy toy needs to be tested cause HE gave you something. You have to go in cause if you don't it may spread bad enough to damage your ability to have kids.
2006-12-21 14:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek medical attention right away, it sounds like you may have vaginal herpies, which will be very painful unless you have medication to treat them. You may be able to seek help from yur local health department, which will minimize your expenses. Sorry :((
2006-12-21 14:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like YOU GOT CRABS. Don't trust what any guy tells you. We always lie.
2006-12-21 14:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by talarlo 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋