I have a kid w/ this guy. It was still hard for me to ask this kind of question-> any plan to marry me? i was shocked coz he said 'no but there's a possibility to marry me''. after knowing that i told him to end it & i gave him a chance to be with our child before telling this thing to my family. My family kept on telling me to leave him and the reason why i asked that to him coz an ex gf keeps on communicating with him
2006-12-20 23:37:55 · 16 answers · asked by annie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No sister it's not right because you've been merged with this guy, and the child remain yours and his. make him see reasons and he will understand.
2006-12-20 23:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by Samcode 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy is a jerk..
If he told you he has no plan to marry you but there is a possibility and the fact that he's still communicating with his ex means this..
He wants to string you along.. He's putting you together with the ex gf in his shopping list..
In case his relationship with his ex gf can't work, he will switch to you, thus he will intend to marry you..
If his relationship with you are doomed then he will go 'full time' with his ex and maybe marry her..
Well, you should decide quick.. leave the jerk..
I believe that you can find much better guy out there..
Good luck sweetie :-)
2006-12-20 23:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child or not, this guy seems like a jackass if he is being on the downlow with an ex gf. It is better to be seperated and both give the chile love then it is to get married when it's not what you want or he wants and fight and make life miserable for yourselves and the child...
Good Luck...You did the right thing
2006-12-20 23:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by lynswil_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t even have second thoughts,turn your back on him right away.He`s a scrub and only wanted to use you.To him,all you had made and done was accidental and he didn`t know it would end like this.That`s why he wants to dump you indirectly.C`mon wise girl,make the move before you are left hanging desperate!!
2006-12-20 23:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..u are right to leave this guy.. if he is not planning to marry u u should not waste your time to be with him anymore..although u have a kid with him but you can still find a better guy who will accept ur child.
2006-12-20 23:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the right choice.
You and your child should be NUMBER ONE priority in his life .. and obviously that isnt the case..
Be a good mum, love your child and all will work out for the best...
2006-12-20 23:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't get it. he said there is a plan to marry him? does that mean he plans for hisself to get married to someone else or to you? if it was to you and you love him and he isn't cheating then why did u leave? you can be friends w/ur ex's. i am. but if his plan was for getting married to someone else then u did the right thing. u have to do what makes u happy in the long run.
2006-12-20 23:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by cupid6980 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dump him right now. Its better for everyone involved. Your baby will find a nice daddy eventually.
2006-12-20 23:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you girl, leave him he's not worth your time. Go find happiness somewhere else.
2006-12-20 23:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK open your eyes now....................your only good for sex and babies with this creep. so stay away from him and sock it to him for child support.
He's said your not good enough to marry. Move on!!
2006-12-20 23:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋