i was the first person whom she asked for a date.but i want to be focused on my studies.but after saying no to her yesterday.i just feel free in the classroom.what should i do not feel akward in classroom.please help me .i want a good answer immediately as i don't log on net in months.please help
2006-12-20 22:44:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I AM NOT in school i am an mbbs student and as i am the topper and she gets usually 3rd to 5th rank. her friends group often ask me for notes.besides sir sometimes ask me to give them a class to solve their queries .that's why i will feel akward if sir ever ask me to give her a class
2006-12-20 22:56:40 · update #1
A simple date for a soda is ok keep around others then after you have your degree you can test her intelligence for being so stupid to hang around waiting for a no go like you.
2006-12-20 22:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to let him goand move on he's a jerk and a coward if he broke up with you through a letter secondly be happy in the skin your in that should prbly b first but your still young you ave plenty of time to worry abt boys now is nt the time to stress abt them enjoy your youth and young yrs no boy or grl or wateva is worth you taking your life i'm not sure if your religious but if so pray and if not keep a journal and spell your feeling out there and once its on the paper leave it there and make it point to say somethin positive abt urself every day and kno that someday whn the time is right you will b swept off ur feet and with the name callin i've aways been told ppl who r uncomfortable in there own skin havt to degrade others to feel better so instead of feeling insulted no that clearly your better than them otherwise they wouldnt speak negative thigns i wish you the best and once again your young true bt i understand emotional distress doesn't hav an age limit so i hope you feel better :)
2016-05-23 04:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ivette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite understanding what you are trying to say...
It seems to me like you don't like-like this girl. Sure she's pretty and smart, and any other guy would go for her, but if you're honestly not that into her, don't feel bad for turning her down. You can't say "yes" to every girl who asks you out! It seems you're focused on your studies, which is fine. You'll know when the right girl comes along.
Best of wishes.
2006-12-20 22:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to have a love life and be academically good. Heck, my girlfriend had all straight A's in honor roll classes when she had ADD. Didnt stop her from dating me.
Basically yes you should ask her out, yu wouldnt be worried about it unless you actually like her right.
2006-12-20 23:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day, when you realise academia wasn't all that important to the bigger picture, you will look back and kick yourself for turning her down.
Life is made of encounters like that - not sitting in a classroom - now go run after her.
2006-12-20 22:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Digby Chicken Bhuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ask her if she wants to study with you if you are so obsessed with schooling. You need to get your priorities straight if all you care about is school. Schooling is important but the people you meet and have relationships with in life is more important overall to me then school.
2006-12-20 22:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in school..continue to focus on your studies, but tell her that if her feelings are true, she may also be a very focused person in which a beautiful thing could develop
2006-12-20 22:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahaha yoo sound like yoo have my problem.
its aight.
ive done that b4 & then i decided well if i like her so much then i can have the guts to appologize & ask them out.
so i did.
it worked out freakin awsomee . well not the dating part he wanted too much but were still great mates.
just try it aye.
uve really got nothing to lose .
x
2006-12-20 22:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man u did a great job. buy saying no.. It is easy to say yes.. But you said no..And why u want to think about her.. you just concentrate on your studies and focus on your career.. Think about building ur career..You just be normal in your class dont have to think about .. you need to feel proud about yourself.. Im proud of you.. dont divert from this..
2006-12-20 22:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by deva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when ur senses come back to you ull realize that academics were a passing thing and that love lasts forever..or at least it sposed to...so when u ssee her waling by w/ another guy ull kick urself bc u could have been him.
2006-12-21 00:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by onetwothree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋