I have this guy friend at work and have known him for six months. We are in a team of 8 other workers but it's only me he's really taken to. So far we have been out to the movies and for a drink, me being the one asking!! And hopefully we are going for a milkshake on Saturday. He is so open with me, tells me about everything and messes about so much, singing and dancing about and as soon as someone else is about he stops. He's very quiet around everyone else but as soon as it's just us two he really lets go. He's so funny and is forever making me laugh and he looks at me for ages sometimes with a smile on his face. He mucks about by jokingly blaming stuff on me like oh thats ur fault!!and funny little comments about me. He's had a lot of problems in his life and his family have really let him down, so that could be a reason why he's not wanted to take things further, maybe he's scared that he might end up losing me too. Do you think he does like me more than a friend?
2006-12-20 22:25:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its impossible to say really. To me it sounds like he really likes you but it could just be as a friend. it depend on he type of person he is really. However, I would advise you not to push for anything more. Leave it all on his terms. If he quite a fragile person and has been through some bad times, you don't want to affect your relationship by trying to be more than friends with him. he could find this really difficult. I suggest you just continue to have fun and enjoy each others company. if things progress further, so be it, if not, you've got a good friend!
2006-12-20 22:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one. He either does like you as a potential girlfriend, but is too scared to try and take things further in case he messes up and lsoes you completely ...
... or, he find you really comfortable to be around and be himself and he's just acting like a really close friend to you. Try subtly talking about it and see what his response is. Maybe try a little flirting too. Never hurts.
2006-12-21 06:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tough to say really. why dont you ask your heart out on this Milkshake date. You still can remain as friends. It's better to ask out now then to repent later for not asking him. Be straight forward and say wahtever u feel for him. That's the best I can advice
2006-12-21 06:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bunty Rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he considers you someone special ,I cant say if it's love o not but it's more than just counting you as a regular friend ,he feels at ease and comfortable with you ,so that could mean he likes you more than just a friend .
2006-12-21 06:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is for sure he considers you as someone special and really likes you...
But it is difficult to say whether he loves u....
Do not try to jump into conclusion,i know it is difficult but try not ....
if he really want you to be his girlfriend he will definitely tell you, as it will be difficult for him too to be just friends if he has feelings for you...
Well you really like him, you can always go ahead and let him know......
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2006-12-21 06:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be ... wait for him to say.. he'll say it when he's sure.. till then.. just let things be the way they r
2006-12-21 06:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋