Hi. Here's the scenario: A close friend (girl) invites me up to her house (almost 200 miles away!) for the weekend. We go shopping, ice-skating, go have lunch in a restaurant. I go back to her house, meet her nieces, brother's girlfriend, mum and dad etc. I put my over-night bag in the room that's been set aside for me. After dinner, we then go upstairs to watch films. Cut a long story short, she gets into bed with me, and we are cosy for the night... nothing happened apart from kissing.
The next week, when I'm back home, I send text messages to ask how she is etc, but get no reply. I go to my myspace page where she's on my friend list, and she's taken me off it! Then I try to ring her, and she cuts me off!
The next day, she texts me and says "sorry i couldn't text, i didn't have any credit, and I've not been on myspace for about a month, so something's gone screwy with it..."
So, then, I don't get any more texts off her! What am I to think?
2006-12-20 22:25:47 · 7 answers · asked by echidna24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now I'm afraid of texting / phoning her again, in case she thinks I'm bugging her, or that I'm intimidating her... i sent emails too, but got no response from them either! All I really want is for her to say whether she really likes me or not, then I can get on with my life... what should I do?
2006-12-20 22:33:04 · update #1
OMG... ok, call me old-fashioned, but I don't go for sex on the first date... maybe I'm behind the times here...
2006-12-20 22:46:18 · update #2
She probably feels she came on a bit strong - maybe she's regretting taking things further than friends. Why don't you arrange to meet her again and talk to her about it?
2006-12-20 22:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a 200 mile trip and all you got was a lot of people looking at you yuor crazy you should have at least got a decent bed time with her forget about her it not worth the cost.
2006-12-20 22:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're like T.O....you dropped the ball man.
You had her in bed with you and only got to kissing? She was more than likely looking for more and you let it go. She is hurt and upset, thus avoiding you.
Hopefully, she'll throw a pass to you again.
2006-12-20 22:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girlfriend that lives close to you. Do you really want to waste that much money driving to see her? Plus you're gonna see a girl that lives alot farther away alot less than someone who lives close.
2006-12-20 22:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only 1 way to find out - talk to her in person...
2006-12-20 22:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Shubho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That she's a little screwy?
2006-12-20 22:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your not what she was looking for. its cool though.
2006-12-20 22:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋