If you were passionate about a woman and crazy mad about her and she had a child, would it stop you from exploring that relationship?
2006-12-20 20:57:26 · 12 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Getting into a RMF (Ready Made Family) is a difficult one. Not only because you are trying to find out what that person is like but you also you have to take into consideration the child's feelings plus the biological father etc... The relationship is going to be 4 times more complicated than seeing someone with no baggage, but plenty of people have taken on RMF's and had a fulfilled life.
2006-12-20 21:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by 247 SEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a woman with a child and I got to tell you that their is no job in the world more difficult and frustrating than being a stepparent. I love my wife and stepson, but no one should enter into such a relationship thinking it's going to be easy.
2006-12-21 05:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by redhotsillypepper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 55 and in my younger days I have. It would be wrong of the mother to have several men or relationships around her child. One should not be introduced to the child until you and your G/F are on solid ground.
2006-12-21 05:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by peterfrady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, marriage complications - My family said ''Why not mary a single woman and adopt a child! atleast that way you won't bare with your wifes ghosts of the past.''
2006-12-21 05:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would. If you place yourself in the "father's role," you can be held to pay CHILD SUPPORT, regardless of whether or not you actually provided the genes to it. No woman is worth being a wage-slave for 18 years, especially if it's not your kid.
2006-12-21 05:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
np. i wouldn't have to be passionate about her either. with all the divorces today, there is a good chance at least half of the available women have kids.
2006-12-21 05:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a single mother now and I have not come across one man yet that was scared off by my being a mother. It's a big suprise to me. Thanks a lot to the men that feel this way.
2006-12-21 05:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i did so u better now do that mistake dude its true she might be full fruit and full of experince and can make u happy but it wont work that good thats what i think
2006-12-21 05:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by persianooo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, but often the kid will... you're in competition for Mom's love.
2006-12-21 04:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by James M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its o.k. No big deal.
2006-12-21 05:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by pakir poyum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋