2006-12-20 19:54:27 · 20 answers · asked by MNKYFLIP 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you think he is just about to finish, slap him really hard and distract him
2006-12-20 20:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by lauralie1978 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable masturbatng in front of him, do that first and then it may be easier to come again during. The good old basic in and out does not work for hardly anyone except for maybe women with very broad and flat hips. This positions the clitoris advantagously, where as in most women, the magic button is unavailable during intercourse. Arouse yourself first, and try getting on top and rubbing your clit against the lenth of his penis. This may work, just try to keep him from going nuts and going in on you when you do this, or you will lose contact with the vital components. Of course, a little teasing dip now and then is nice, and it keeps things lubricated. The secret is, figure out how to come with him around, and don't expect that this has anything at all to do with having him inside of you. Forget everything that you know, and take control. Have fun!
2006-12-21 04:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could get into much detail, but to make it short, read Penthouse magazine and look at the letters. You could learn alot from that. I have my own techniques with the ladies such as giving more oral sex, more mini-bites, kisses, tongue-action, etc. Well, you should get the idea. Also you could use squeeze and tease on him. If you think he's going to finish, slow down the pace. It takes alot of practice on both partner's part. The other option is if he's not very concerned with satisfying you or improving his overall performance, cut him off. Oh yeah, make sure he wears a condom.
2006-12-21 04:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't let him finish until you do. Make sure you go first. Only something like 5% (I don't remember where I read that stat, sorry, but I know I read it) of women can finish with him inside, most need manual manipulation, so make him finish you first. Then, when you are finishing him, you may actually get a chance for a second go-around!! Wee-hee!!
2006-12-21 03:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by bashnick 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I competely understand the grrrr. Why not just tell him? Don't listen to his lame excuses of oh I just can't that is bs. Or you tell him that your in total control and he has to do as you say. That means he has to wait until your finished. He is not caring about you, all that matters to him is himself. If he won't play the game your way...move on. There are others out there that will.
2006-12-21 04:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eeeeeeeeeew!!!!!! Kick his butt to the kerb girl, have some pride!!!! That is sooooooooooooo rude. Unless of course you're not talking having seeeeex?? I have a feeling you are. Just don't be there anymore, tell him you have to watch the plants grow or that you'd rather step in a steaming pile of shi... than waste anymore time hanging out with him!!!!!!!!! Good luck :)
2006-12-21 04:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Minx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him look you are always getting off before me, something has got to change. Guess don't like to think they are bad at bed. Just tell him you are great and all, but you don't make it last long enough for me to enjoy it like i want too. make him give you oral sex first and for awhile before you guys have sex, that away you are really aroused and have had a couple of yours. Then after you feel satisfied give him oral sex and then have sex!! Good Luck, but remember careful how you tell him. You don't want to hurt his pride!!!
2006-12-21 04:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by noramom4life101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that used to happen to me until one night i just reached down and rubbed my clitoris as soon as i thought he was about to finish. We ended up finishing together. From that day on he tells me when he is at his peak and we finish together most often than not!
2006-12-21 03:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by ms.cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call me and well get a vibrator and i can finish and hop right back 7 times!!!!
2006-12-21 03:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come and see me hon, I'll do you right! You'll get off first, last and a dozen times in between.
2006-12-21 03:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋