She lives on the other side of the country, but it's been far too long now. She did a "tribute" to her ex-boyfriends on her myspace the other day and included him. It creeps me out. It also creeps me out that I can't stop looking at her pages.. I'm so depressed about it that it's almost become an obsession. I know I should stop looking, but now I can't.. HELP!
2006-12-20 19:47:56 · 14 answers · asked by Delvala 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) You are overly possessive and I hope you don't display annoyance in front of your boyfriend because it's a huge turn-off for him.
2) Your boyfriend's ex did a tribute to her ex-boyfriends...errr, note the plural form of the word 'boyfriend'?? He's not the only one she mentioned in myspace. She's just using that tribute to brag to everyone that she's had plenty of boyfriends in the past.
3) You shouldn't in any way feel jealous because the guy's with you now, not her. Why let the past govern your emotions?
2006-12-21 05:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change the fact that your b/f has had g/f's in the past, but the fact is they are EX girlfriends, so the relationship did not work out with them, or they would still be together. He can't do anything to stop her posting pictures, he is part of her history and that's just something you have to accept. It's not like she is writing to him, or still in contact with him, so it's not his fault. Stop looking, stop obsessing, because you will just drive him away by doing that. Rather focus on what you can do to make your relationship better, and more positive.
2006-12-21 03:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stop because your acting strange. You cannot control the way she is. She probably is doting on the past. Just get a grip and find something better to do. He is with you anyways...so who cares? If you didn't have the boy maybe I'd understand but they are her pictures and its her web page. She has freedom to do whatever she wants. Personally I think its retarded for her to have a tribute page for her ex. Maybe she's trying to see how many guys she can get on that page. Just think of it like that. Then laugh and move on with your life.
2006-12-21 03:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by kowalley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a little dingy: "A tribute to her ex-boyfriends?" Okay sorry...had to get that out.
Just STOP going to her My Space page. It sounds like a compulsion fueled by obsession, and there must be deeper issues of insecurity that you have. Trust me, it takes ONE to know one (points to myself). Just find SOMETHING ELSE to do, and stop torturing yourself.
I suspect that you have many more good qualities and talents than you believe you have. Concentrate on building YOURSELF up.
2006-12-21 03:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It may take a while but pretty soon you'll get bored with it or something else on the internet will become your temporary obsession and you'll do THAT all the time. It's fine.
2006-12-21 03:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not with him, you are so get over it!
What can she do from "the other side of the country"?
2006-12-21 03:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should psych yourself into believing that you Don't Care and Do Not want to look at her pages. Everytime you're about to look at her page, silently (or audibly) tell your self "I will not allow myslef to be bothered by ________'s page." or "I do not want to look at this page, I do not care what she posts on it" simply tell yourself you don't give a care, and soon enough you wouldn't. :-)
2006-12-21 03:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by kefirasmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's busy with her life and you are busy with her life. Just imagine how many guys/girls have pictures and dreams of their actor, singer idols in their thoughts or on walls, etc.
Be happy in your own little world instead of hers.
2006-12-21 03:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
then do some kind of comeback to make urself feel better!
like posting ur current pics with ur boyfriend..hehehe..that'll shatter her tribute!
2006-12-21 05:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ hOnEy ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋