my bf broke up with me because he said we fought too much..over stupid little ****...because he always chose his friends over me...but i would be there with them..but it would be 24/7. seriously!! so i would fight with him about it because it needed to be stopped. he broke up with me and we would have been together for 3 years this 26th. of december. how can i win him back? what will open his eyes to make him realize nobody will ever love him like i did. it was unconditional i fin promise that!!! i cant stop thinking about him and just dont know what to do. weve been broken up for 2 months and ive been dating other guys but all i want is him...what can i do to fix it?!?!?
2006-12-20 19:07:09 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't really want him back. He will continue to want to be with his friends 24/7 and there is nothing you can say to him to change that.
You miss the parts of the relationship that you liked but the other parts come with it too.
2006-12-20 19:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept his friends or realize you deserve someone who is more interested in you than his friends. If you really want to open his eyes show him what he's missing, by going out and having you're own life and enjoying it. It might open your eyes as well. Life is what you make of it, so choose it to be better. You could always make up with him and when he goes to his friends you go to yours... talk about some cute guys that was hitting on you and your friends... so on and so forth. Maybe when he realizes your not up his whahoo he'll pull his head out of his and miss you. Check out other guys when he's around... jealousy is a wonderful thing. Otherwise you are just someone who nagged him for spending time with his friends. No wants a nag. So there are a few ideas. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-21 03:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is that you should talk to him in a casual way. Start things out slow and try to make him remember why you were together for so long. If you find yourself in an argument about something petty, stop for a second and decide if the fight is even worth it. Apologize to each other and forget about it. If the fighting is constant, the relationship is probably not for the two of you and you'll see that when you look back up on. Good luck!
2006-12-21 03:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by rjs6281 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
how serious are you did he really spend too much time with his pals or are you just overeacting. If your serious and he spent 24 hrs a day and it wasnt something he done since the beginning, and suddenly started. Maybe it was just an excuse to get you mad, so he could say you fought too much, and break up. After 3yrs, it would seem hed find forgiveness, and try to reason, has he tried getting in touch , does he seem upset, if not I would wonder if maybe he planned it this way.
2006-12-21 03:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by donnakygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello...you luv him and still date other guys? Well, talk about luv. Ask yourself, what do you look in him? What is his attraction? Why is it some other guys doesn't make the cut? If you're able to find other dates, I guessed you're not bad looking, right? Dump the SOB. There's plenty of DH around to do your bidding and he's just one that went out of fashion, get it? Move on and live life to the fullest. Cheers...
2006-12-21 03:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by william hunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dun have to fix it.If he seriously wants u back ,he will come look for u.It sounds to me that he prefers to be wif his friends more than u.I dun think that's going to change even if u r back together wif him.So,if u can't accept that,there's really no point in getting back wif him.Just let go and let time heal ur wounds.u can't measure love with the length of time together.
2006-12-21 04:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you kidding? It's obvious you are inlove with your best friend and maybe he sees that and backed away. If he misses you then he'll contact you and if he doesn't then let it be and move on but just remember don't call him or look desperate because that will only push him further away.
2006-12-21 03:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a stalker type ? sounds like maybe you are just a little jealous and don't like to share ! maybe you should think about this and not try to keep him always under your control or find a more submissive guy who will say yes mistress all the time !
2006-12-21 03:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your love WASN'T unconditional... The condition was that he spent more time with you than with his friends...
He's chosen his course, and that is his friends over you...
Move on, you aren't that important to him...
2006-12-21 03:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
May be you missed the train. You may catchup or do not miss the next train.
2006-12-21 03:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by VINIE J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋