and i can't seem to find love. At first everything was ok because i was enjoying my new life. and then all of a sudden i started thinking about how great we were together and always go back. I have a new relation ship now but I don' t think i will ever love again like i did at the first time. Sometimes it gets to me so bad especially on Sundays. I know i am selfish and i shouldn' t think his way but hey what can i do?
2006-12-20 17:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by Nadia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am still with my first love. I have been with her for 8 years.
3 months
21 days
5 hours
5 minutes
Not that I keep track =)
2006-12-20 17:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get past what you're feeling...wallowing in self pity and indulgence. You shouldn't be looking for love, love will find you. What you look for is friendship first. Make LOTS of friends, do things with them. Someone will find YOU, when it's time. Don't think of love as a HUNT. All loves are different. So don't expect what you feel for one person, to feel the exact same way about another. People are people, you're trying too hard and puting love in a box to be opened on command. You need to step back and relax...take a good hard look at yourself and grow up a bit.
2006-12-21 01:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the anwser to your question is this no i dont think any of us really ever get over our first love but you know its like this life does go on and you just learn to love someone else,and i know the love might not be the same as your first love,but you know its like this just because things dont always work out the way we would like them to doesnt mean that you cant love someone else because you can your love might be different for the other person but if its real love you gotta give it a chance and let your self grow with it not destroy it or the person your trying to love ok so give your self a chance,and just look at it like this what ever fun moments and memorys you and your first love had they will always be there and there is noone that can take them away but you yourself,but all at the same time you can learn to love again ok,well let me know how it turns out ok
2006-12-21 01:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by DAVE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well breaking up with yr first love is HARD!! i have never felt it before but i think that most first loves do break up and it is only a rare chance that the first love do not break up. Surprising isn't it i guess i meant for fate to decide if your first love is going to break up with u or not!!
2006-12-21 01:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by jyan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there sure is love out there ,maybe being the first affair one will be inexperienced and that's when you learn to love and it becomes hard to stay in the same relationship as you may like to taste different companions.well it happens to all of us but we will be so much in love for you to think that you won't break up but you know what it does.so I would say to you it's normal and provides variety.so good luck........................
2006-12-21 02:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by sandy b m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we shouldnt compare but at the end its what we all do .
maybe u will find something much better , maybe u wont .
but go on with ur life . we will never forget happy things and emotions in our lifes and this is a good thing . carry them in ur heart but dont get obsessed with them .
try to see the good things with the person u are with .
best wishes !
2006-12-21 01:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for love. Look for happiness.
When you find the latter, the importance of the former diminishes.
2006-12-21 01:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by tamaleman33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn from this experience
2006-12-21 02:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋