is it possible?

Question

im 15 in 10th grade and im not the most popular kid or 'hot'. so pretty much a reject. i tend to keep to myself. when im with my friends i talk alot though. im horrible with girls. is it possible for some one like me to get one of the hot girls? if so how? www.myspace.com/re247. go there to see what i look like. ( green hoodie)

Answer 1

if you're just looking for someone hot your going find out theyre just looking for someone hot too..

thats your problem... but hey if that what floats your boat i guess

Answer 2

Look lil hommie, it don't happen over night for everyone. Just keep getting your education, life is longer than just high school, you need to make money someday because that is a "hot girl" turn on big time. Next you have to be smart to have good conversation, which is a "hot girl" turn on too. You wrote that you are a "reject", that's bulls@#t man, you just a pimp in progress, that's all. I had plenty of friends in high school that did way better with hot girls than I did, but because I got my education none of them can keep up now. You will be OK lil player just give it time. Oh and stay up in the gym. You want a "hot girl" you need to look good too. Good luck man!

Answer 3

Love is possible for even the most "geeky". Good guy? Stay good and you will meet the right person. You sound like you may be just a little on the lonely side and there is nothing wrong with that. The sooner you realize there is nothing wrong with you at all and its the people you talk to the better off you will be. You just have not met the right person yet.

Answer 4

It's not about appearance so much as it is about how you feel about yourself. It shows. Low self esteem is unattractive. Surely there are men out there less physically appealing than you. Focus on your good qualities. Open up and like yourself. Be who you really are. Do things that make you feel good about yourself. Progress at things you are good at. Develop some respectable qualities, such as working out regularly, focusing on good grades, etc. And if you don't already, shower every day and maybe dab on a little soft scented cologne. It makes you stand out, and that's when you can begin to develop your socialization skills. Think of it this way: You are a treasure in the rough, just waiting for your time to sparkle.

Answer 5

YOU ARE NOT A REJECT !!!! Listen....don't give a F*ck what anyone thinks or say...YOU ARE SMART AVERAGE LOOKING GUY and if you think positive of yourself then you will find a "hot" girl who will love you for who you are.....everyone wants the best, therefore you want a "hot" girl.....you might get one...honestly you should really look for someone you can hang out with, you know someone who likes the same music as you, that kind of thing....looks ain't everything you know?! but seriously anything is possible, you might get your wish.....if not? you can handle it...BE BRAVE.....i feel you bro, just think positive of yourself.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4nyotmZiX8

enjoy.

Answer 6

if you're afraid people wont' like you because of your looks, then why judge others for the same thing. sounds like a hypocrit to me. if you just care about a girls looks, then you don't deserve a girl. haven't you heard that you're suppose to look at the heart. thats what truely counts. besides looks only last so long, the heart lives on forever. if you still are shallow think about this... would you rather date a really hott girl who ends up using you and breaking your heart, or a girl who is descent looking but will love you forever and a day and will be by your side to support you.

Answer 7

dude, i was you when i was in high school. the thing you got to understand is that things change over time. the person that you are now will not be the same person in two weeks time. over the time that i was in high school ive been through four girlfriends, and the people that were "popular" are either working at a Tim Horton's( think of a star bucks, but only Canadian) or have mommy and daddy paying their way through collage. so dont worie, some day you will meet the most beautiful girl in your world, and she will every everything to you. it happened to me, it will happen to you, just give it time.

Answer 8

don't be too hard on yourself. i'm not going to look at your picture so i don't make unneccessary comments if ever.

so you say you're not hot or popular. but you're not a reject (clear?). you say that you talk a lot when you're with friends. the key here is to learn to talk like that when you're with others. in short, you have to develop confidence when you're not with your friends. girls notice that. people tend to be attracted to those who show confidence wherever they are. and those who have poise or grace. but not arrogant or over confident. i hope you get what i mean. you don't have to look like Tom Cruise for girls to notice you.

also you have to learn to talk sense. girls don't want to listen to boys who talk only about themselves. or those who talk just for the sake of talking.

lastly, learn to show sincerity. if they see that you're sincere with your actions, they will notice you AND like you.

BTW, why do you want hot girls too much? most are probably good only on the outside.

hope i was able to help a bit.

Answer 9

I don't need to look at you. Looks aren't everything you know. (at 15 they seem to be, but they aren't really). Why not talk to girls you already know, give them a chance to know you. (if you have a sister or brother close to you in age, it might help to talk to their friends or have them GET you a date.) Just don't act like a creep, talk...don't be stupid either. Find some common ground, music, books, classes, dancing, clubs, whatever. Don't start a conversation and then get tongue tied. Take deep breaths and talk...

Answer 10

you worry to much my friend just be yourself and if a hot looking girl likes you they will let you know,but first of all you gotta quit putting yourself down because girls do not like that in a guy,so just give your self a chance and just be yoursef ok and mrs right will pop up sooner or later ok.well good luck