Well I met her about a month ago and she seemed like she liked me since she fell asleep on me when I had my arm around her and she seemed happy when I called, but I didn't talk to her that much until last week I told her I wanted to do something that friday (but I kind of acted faggish by messing up and calling her again) but then when I called her on friday she just answered and was like im sorry ive got to do a term paper. so im thinking if she liked me she would have made time, but she is a studious asian girl and it is the end of the term, so should I call her back??(i've got like a day or two)
2006-12-20 17:44:16 · 14 answers · asked by whatuknowaboutthatisback 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also check out my questions about my friend choco taco's dilemma
2006-12-20 18:01:44 · update #1
Let her do the term paper.
She doesn't want to start dating when she has crap due.
And yes your acting like a sissy.
Call her after she said it was due and ask her if she got her paper in OK, and that you were just checking up since she sounded so stressed about it.
2006-12-20 17:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try to call her now that the end of the term is over. However you didn't make it clear if you guys slept together or not (hint: without the sleeping) She may have fell asleep for a reason and possibly could be she wasn't comfortable with the situation, but didn't want to hurt feelings. Don't act faggish again...lol Don't push to much cause it could push her away if she is interested. Try to invite her to social gatherings this stops her falling asleep, gives you two a chance to get to know each other and perhaps get past the awkward part. And don't try to read to much into somethings. Tell her how you feel and that you are grown up enough to be able to handle the truth if she is not interested good luck and happy holidays. I know I had a paper due at the end of the term and I was stressed out, perhaps she is too. Good thing my husband didn't divorce me for not giving him any and reading to much into me having a paper to do. I am not super good at doing papers so it took everything I had and then wanting the best grade possible would meant even more effort. I was exaughsted, and seriously her grade is going to be more important than some guy she has only known for a month, and if it were me and you couldn't understand that then I would see it as a unfortunate sign.
2006-12-21 03:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have too high of an opinion of yourself if you thought she should put you in front of her future by not studying. Remember, what happens today in your education DOES affect tomorrow. If I were you, I would not give up, it sounds like she does like you and that is nothing to sneeze at. Just remember that she should be putting school first and not to push too hard.
As for being '*****' when you called her again, I say no way, you showed interest so she doesn't have to log on to YA and ask "Does this boy like me?".
Give her a call if you don't hear from her for a week, but other than that you are doing just what you should be. Good job!
HTH
2006-12-21 01:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both you and your friend, "choco taco" are a disgrace to all English speaking people. You both seem well educated and with bright futures ahead of you. Instead you seem to spend your time procrastinating and annoying the dog loving people of the Dog section.
Tata
2006-12-21 16:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Reported 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEAH! TOTALLY!
i MEAN iF SHE DiD LiKE YOU SHE WOULD MAKE TiME FOR YOU OR SUGGEST ANOTHER DAY OR SOMETHiNG BUT A PAPER.
MOVE ON!
THEN AGAiN iF iT'S LiKE A TERM PAPER AND iT'S NEAR THE END OF THE TERM THEN iT'S PRETTY iMPORTANT.
NUH!
MOVE ON!
2006-12-21 01:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by purple blood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. She's probably the type of girl that is more into studying than going out and having a fun time. No offensive. Give her some time. She probably still likes you.
2006-12-21 01:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by candi=yummi 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not gve her another call ? could be worth it, i know what its like to ahve to blow friends off bcvuz of school stuff. if you really like her then call her again, see what happens, if she keeps doing this tho and isnt very open to you then get rid of her and find some one better. Good Luck!
2006-12-21 01:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes call her back,you know she had to finish that term paper or she would have gotten a bad grade so just call her up and ask her out again,dood luck
2006-12-21 01:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by DAVE S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a girl likes you she wouldn't care about any term paper. I say call her one more time. If she has another excuse then forget about her. Good luck!!!
2006-12-21 01:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give her a little time and call her again . maybe she really couldnt find any time on that day . if she wont find any next time u call her its time for u to catch ur eye on someone else !
2006-12-21 01:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋