I have known this guy for 3 years and apparently from what I know he likes me back. We are really good friend too. The problem is, is that he knows that I really like him and he makes comments to me all the time that he likes me, other stuff about my body and so on... we are always flirting with eachother and have alot of fun. The problem is, is that he tells me that he cant stop thinking about me, that he really wants to be with me but... he proposed to his girlfriend of 5 years that everyone has said he thinks he cant do any better... but then he still hits on me and when we have gone out as friends things always go to far... i dont want to be the other girl but i want to know is he really gonna leave her for me like he has said or am i just always gonna be the other girl?...
2006-12-20 17:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get as far away from him as you can! He is a classic bullsh**er. While you're at it, you may want to save his fiancee a lifetime of torture by letting him know how very wrong this is. Ask to be switched to a different department at work or simply ignore him. If he wanted to be with you, he wouldn't have proposed to his girlfriend. Period. The guy's not worth your time.
2006-12-20 17:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Me, Thrice-Baked 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say back out as well...You probably might be just his side girl.
You might get hurt at the end. Unless he comes to you open handed single.
How would you feel if your fiance was messin around with some next chic? So yea, think about it and try to stay away from this dude
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2006-12-20 17:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by MeaMea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen girl every guy are different in their own way, some keep their words but some just do it for fun. but what you have to do is follow your heart but not your mind OK. and make the wise decision so at the end you don't get hurt and also don't put your hope to high OK
2006-12-20 17:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always be the other girl if you continue to allow it. Even if he ends up breaking up with his fiance and he decides he wants to date you, his present behavior is telling you loud and clear what he will do when someone else who is "interesting" comes along. If he really wanted to pursue something with you, he would not be leading this other girl on and deceiving her.
2006-12-20 17:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god. PLEASE dont be the other woman. How would you like it if he did this to you? Can you imagine how much that would hurt. And if you do go with him he probably WILL do it to you. Why is he saying these things when he has a girl. This guy has problems.
2006-12-20 17:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In reality your an idiot for being attracted to him. What makes you think he won't do you same thing to you if you were together. Also, I'm sure he tells everyone what he tells you. Atleast thats how it worked with my last girlfriend.
2006-12-20 17:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Adam H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being dis-honest and he is sleazy.
how would you like it if things were the other way around?
Actually both of you are what may be described as low-lifes.
2006-12-20 17:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP! he is never going to leave his fiance. if he wants to, he could have done it already. and you will always be #2. he only want to have sex with you. sorry but it's the truth. you can still be friends with him. but keep your distance
2006-12-20 17:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If the guy decides to go for you then what would stop him from dumping you too in the future?
2006-12-20 17:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeek back out of this love triangle
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2006-12-20 17:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋