Happened about 24 hours ago, baby's heartbeat still fine.
2006-12-20 17:28:49 · 17 answers · asked by Micky 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Go to see the doctor right away, you are 24 hrs late.
2006-12-20 17:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
They can treat her with antibiotics, give her medication to stop labor (even if she isn't having contractions they will probably give mag sulfate) and give her steriod shots for the lungs. But at this point if she develops an infection complications can arise. That is a really tough situation. I'm so sorry.
Hopefully they will can get the baby further along so that it will be able to survive outside the womb, at 17 weeks surviving isn't usually possible. and not without complications for the baby. There is always the chance she is a little further along and in these cases even a few days more mature can make a difference.
Be prepared to support your son and daughter in law in case. But don't bring up the negative side, they have probably already heard it and additional stress will not help the situation.
There is always a rush of relatives to come and support the mother. But visitors will tire her out, she needs all her strength for the baby. You need to be the watch dog. Speak to her, limit visitors who she is up to seeing to just a few minutes. If you have trouble controlling the visits speak to a nurse, they will assist you. Don't worry about hurting people's feelings, just say the doctor wants her to limit all visits or she's had her limit of visits for the day. Tell people that she is very tired and weak and so only 2 minutes. But her husband needs to be there it will make all the difference, often they let him stay in the room, even long term. If he needs a break, just be there to hold her hand or sit with her. She will talk if she is up to it.
She should be seen by a perinatologist not just a ob/gyn. She needs someone who specializes and is aggressive with treatment. These are the same type of doctors that treat large multiples like quads and can even operate. If sealing the womb is possible they will know. I have enclosed the link which also has referrals. These doctors are the best and can even operate on unborn children. She will have to spend the rest of the pregnancy in the hospital in the antipartum ward. It is no fun. Be sure to do everything you can to help her through this time. It is scary and frustrating for all.
They have a little fountain type thing now that is inserted into the vagina and into the uterous to help keep the fluid around the baby. And her own body will keep producing fluid but it will leak unless they can find a way to patch it. Most people are not aware the body changes the fluid on a regular basis. So there will be some natural hydration. If they can patch her bag of water they won't use the fountain and nature will refill the bag. But if it can't be repaired this is a great way to keep fluid around the baby, it feel very odd though!
God Bless!
2006-12-20 21:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Micky u need to be positive for ur son and daughter in law. Don't promise her anything, don't say it's nothing. Just reassure both of them how much u all luv them. Prayer is a powerful tool. Seeking the best care, start doing some cking on things. Make sure their doctor is up todate on latest, greatest options for premature labor. Let her know ur precious grand child is a fighter as her Mom. Is there task at home, they need done, other children, chores, errands that need to be handled. U can help in so many ways. But u too need to rest, if ill avoid both of them. Right now infection and stopping the leaking sack is critical. Babies can survive if they can hold out til late trimester. The most critical time is now. So that her body won't try to deliver an under develop baby. I'm sure all of us will keep u in our thoughts and prayers during this emotional roller coaster.
When u say her water broke, don't u mean she has a hole or tear where amniotic fluid is leaking? U need to think positive, baby's heartbeat still fine. That is a huge accomplishment. Start talking with the nurses, they can be a tremendous support system for ur daughter & u. Someone suggested blocking visitors... let the nurses do it for u all. She's on an emotional roller coaster, if you can find a favorite music, movie to help her pass the time wonderful.
2006-12-21 01:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Staci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin had her water break at (I believe 32 weeks). What they did was keep her on EXTREME bedrest for about 6 days with her lower body elevated higher than the rest of her body so that no more amniotic fluid would "leak" out. They did this so that she would reach her 33 weeks and it made the circumstances safer for the baby. Now, here is the thing, your daughter in law is, unfortunatly no where near "safe zone". Once the baby is out of amniotic fluid, their oxygen has been literally cut. I know the baby can stay in there for a very small amount of time, but I wouldn't risk it.
I think that their is nothing any of us can say that will help this situation, all I can offer is to have your daughter in law and her baby in my prayers. I too am guessing, or rather hoping that she is at a hospital, if not, get her there FAST!!! Babies have been born at 4 months and they survive. Keep your faith and pray,pray,pray!
2006-12-20 17:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by katiesmommy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok for all you saying she needs to be in the hospital...HOW ELSE DOES SHE KNOW THE HEARTBEAT IS FINE?? OMG read between the lines people. If the heartbeat is still fine the baby will probalby be ok. Maybe all of the water didn't come out.
2006-12-20 17:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can't do much to keep the baby from being born, if it broke completely, it all depends on the exact reason and what happened. The baby may be born early, sounds like she is about 17 weeks, if they can hold off, the baby has a better chance the longer it goes. The treatments are usually to help the babies lungs to develope and try and hold off delivery if possible. i have known lots of premies, some born before curent medications were known about, and they are all doing well now. Best of luck
2006-12-20 17:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by bdearone 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had PPROM at 27 weeks in my last pregnancy.. how many weeks is she? most people do go into labor shortly after water breaking but not ALL do. i know people who have had their water break at 16 weeks and made it to 30+ weeks to deliver.. I went about 3 weeks before i delivered. every day counts right now. if you want/need info and hope join the email list here at this website for PPROM: http://www.kanalen.org/prom/
The doctors at this point will be nothing but grim and probably even advise her to terminate or deliver. If she does not have an infection (common cause of pprom). she shoudl be well educated on what her options are. Email me if you need anymore info.
2006-12-20 17:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mina222 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. 4 months? I hope your daughter in law is in the hospital. If her water broke, the baby can't survive in the uterus for too long, the baby will need to come out. But its soooo early, it will need A LOT of care and attention. I pray it survives....the baby isnt even fully developed at all....Best of luck to you guys....
2006-12-20 17:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Miss A. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At four months this baby has chances! If there a small hole in the bag they wil try to hold off. There is a steroid shot the baby would get to help it develope its lungs faster so it is more likely to suceed. god bless
2006-12-20 17:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what they an medically do to help the baby survive. Has she actually given birth yet?? If she hasn't and she does... they will do everything possible and you can pray your heart out...these days there are plently of miracles doctors are working with preemies. I'll pray for your grandchild and family! *God Bless*
2006-12-20 17:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by ღ♥ Katie ♥ღ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when they say "water broke" that means the amneotic fluid around the baby is leaking out... I dont know how much longer the baby can survive in the uterus without that fluid.. I would ask the doctor on duty at the hospital, rather then us
2006-12-20 17:31:54 · answer #11 · answered by Ash 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋