Well I have been in a small relationship before and have got the feeling of having some know me for me. There is this girl that I have like for years but she is always jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend. We are good friends but she doesnt know how I feel for her or how I act not in school. I would love have some to spoil and talk to whenever you want. Also I think by best friend is trying to get with her. We are also getting ready for college and I dont want a relationship that will end in a few months. I just dont want to wreck my friendships by trying to go farther with it. I just dont know what to do? Have any suggestions?
2006-12-20 17:23:51 · 6 answers · asked by Need Help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, I think you should just try to be better friends with her. Like you said, having a couple months of a relationship then moving away isn't the best idea. Rarely do LD relationships work, and you said she goes from bf to bf... you know what will happen. She sounds kinda immature to me, I'd say wait for her to grow up, but of course that's unrealistic. Get her email, MSN etc., talk to her casually... get to know her better... maybe you two will find you're soulmates and do whatever you can to be together (not so likely) or maybe you'll see you're not great relationship material afterall. Don't pursue her... it'll end in heartache, but do keep in contact with her and try to get to know her better, and you never know what could happen even years down the road. Going away for college you'll meet tons of new girls and friends and so I think that you should just let things play out slowly... it's really for the best.
2006-12-20 17:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends huh tough one I tell ya been there done that. It took ten years for my best friend to say something to me and funny as it seemed my feelings for him I thought were same but in fact over time becasue of all the things he done for me I confused the feelings of love and graditude. We last about 6 yrs and almost got married. Now we havent spoke to one another for about 5 years now. Heres your choices tell her now and find out how she feels. or wait and see what happens. But put it to her in a question lets just say generally speaking what if i told you i had feelings for you do you think you would wanna date me? see find somehow to break the ice first.
2006-12-21 01:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look..
its alwayz good to speak watever is there in the mind, before the time passes out and then u realize its worth.
but, i feel that gal is characterless, cuz changing boyfriends is a bit like..u know!!
whatever, if u really feel that ur love is true, go ahead.
try to cool her down and make her understand the real worth of being a gal..to maintain her dignity and character.
am sure she will understand..
all the best!
2006-12-21 01:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation as u.....the only diff is the girl i like is my best friend....we only have 1 yr left together so i dont want to spoil our friendship by going any further...but if u think it is gonna work out then i think u should....but if u think it wont last long then i guess u shouldnt do anything
2006-12-21 01:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by chipmunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is way to short. Ask yourself this instead..If You do not speak up and let both of them know how you feel will you regret it in the future? You do not want to look back and say if only I had said something. If only I had tried..... I say speak up and let both of your friends know your feelings. Keep it up front and honest that way you are not hurting any one.
2006-12-21 01:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by MARY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dive into the ice cold pool
2006-12-21 01:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by MT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋