So my ex really f'd with my head and for years, manipulation tactics to fake pregnancy tests and fake sona gram pictures to "fix" the relationship and to get pregnant for real.
The problem is I'm dating a new girl now and its really hard to trust her now. She wants to go out all the time do everything you normally do in a realationship except sex. She doesn't even want to acknowledge we're in a relationship (listing herself as single on myspace) and doesn't want the title GF/BF or even acknowledge we're dating. She says she doesn't want to have sex until we're in a realationship but she's not ready for that (even though we're doing all that relationship stuff now) She never told me her last name til recent, I've yet to meet her @ home cuz she lives with a weird uncle, and she's very secretive her ex of 4 years was what it sounds as physically abusive and she had to move because of a stalker issue. Its been a month now should I stick by & see where things go or look else where?
2006-12-20 17:21:12 · 7 answers · asked by massure4hire 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My situation is difficult too cuz my psycho ex still lives with me since she was arrested and had to live somewhere in state to be on probation till she can trasfer to PA to live with her family. The new girl is everything i look for in a woman and seems to understand my situation. It sucks cuz i'm 25 and my dates end in saying goodbye in a parking lot cuz i can't take her home cuz her crazy uncle and i can't have her stay with me at all cuz of my psycho ex making issues with the new girl. But I'm finding it hard to trust the new girl with this whole i don't want a realtionship but don't want you dating anyone else either attitude. Being 5 months since i've had sex is killing me as well lmao.
2006-12-20 17:29:09 · update #1
Get the ex out of the house. You're not responsible for her. You are really enabling her to continue using you. There are places for her to go. Before she is out of the house, it will be nearly impossible to expect a relationship with anyone else. I wouldn't go for it.
2006-12-20 18:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you picked a replica of your former girlfriend- off-kilter women who have odd issues or dramas or things going on. I think you should stop dating her. Maybe if your ex messed with your head, you should get some counseling to help you make better choices. If counseling isn't an option, read a few relationship books like "Are You The One for Me? Knowing Who's Right & Avoiding Who's Wrong"
2006-12-21 01:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd bail. A month is long enough. Sounds like she has a lot of head-case baggage. RUN AWAY!
2006-12-21 01:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Trollinger 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like another drama relationship you've got yourself into!good luck
2006-12-21 01:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should bolt. she sounds whack. I mean, come on...talk about trust issues. it sounds like this will end up going no where.
2006-12-21 01:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by experiMENTAL bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you have a problem i think. i'm not sure what to say to you. good luck.
2006-12-21 01:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by cutemay1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look else where.
this new girl sounds retarted, sorry.
2006-12-21 01:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Hollow ✌ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋