I have been datin this girl off and on for the last couple months. We met ont he net and we are both 15, we met once and are going to meet again this weekend. I just found out from her friend that the girl i am datin acutally thinks i'm ugly and she is going to break up with me like a week after we meet this weekend. I though i really loved this girl. I promised her friend that i wouldn't tell the girl i'm dating that i wouldn't tell her she told me. But how can i face her this weekend knowing this. I don't know what to do. I feel like someone has gutted me right now. Please give me some advice. The pain hurts so much.
2006-12-20 17:17:57 · 14 answers · asked by Cody 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have met in person and we talk on the phone everyday.
2006-12-20 17:20:34 · update #1
Don't talk AT her. Talk TO her. Tell her what's up, and ignore what you told her friend. Ask her straight up "Did you intend to break up with me?" Be honest, and never ever try internet relationships...some ladies use their cousin's pic, and then when you see 'em...Also, be true about what you are saying, and tell her how you feel, and also, if she asks "Who told you" tell her who...God Bless.
2006-12-20 17:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
E-mail or call her and ask if what her friend say is true. She may be using her friend to relay a message because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or her friend is jealous of you and is trying to break you up. You need to know now and not later how she feels about you, and you will know the truth about the friend. There’s no point in staying with someone who doesn’t feel the same way about you. Heartbreak is tough enough to deal with at any age and there’s no point in making it last longer, and the best cure for that is another girlfriend.
2006-12-21 01:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by D.B. Cooper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suffering from a condition called fifteenitis. Let me tell you what to do.
Don't believe what the girl said. Just enjoy the time together. When she breaks up with you, be strong. Thank her for the time together and let her know you will always be there for her. She will cherish that.
In any case, remember that there will always be girls out there that will hurt you. They don't mean to. They're just 15 yrs old too.
2006-12-21 01:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her over the net or whatever. Who cares what her little friend thinks? Be straight up with this girl.
2006-12-21 01:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not base my opinion on what the friend said-- why would the friend say this to you anyway, even if it is true? It's not really her business. I would instead listen to my gut. Does she act like she wants to break up?
2006-12-21 01:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Tar though I disagree with the 'internet r'ships suck' attitude. I've heard stories both good and bad so... there's plenty of fish out there. + you're only 15. not the end of the world lol..
2006-12-21 01:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well let her dump you but can you trust her friend what if her friend wasnt telling the truth and she does like u anyway try stay out of internet relationships its better to know the person in real life so if they dont like u then u dont feel all bummed out and heart broken and i doubt u love her u might just be infatuated with her. go out on dates with girls u know and that know u.........in real life..hope everyting turns out alright
2006-12-21 01:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's pretty harsh. but don't listen to the "Friend" it could be a sabotage type of thing. yeah it may hurt to have heard that but before you do or say anything drastic, wait for it to happen cause it may not happen at all. the friend could just be evil.
2006-12-21 01:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by experiMENTAL bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and ask her what her problem is
u shouldnt waste ur feeling on her if shes THAT shallow
when u go on the date take her to watch Shallow Hal
talk to her about it, see if she can get over it
2006-12-21 01:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay off the net kid it's dangerous these days,just finish your schooling
2006-12-21 01:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋