I can't get over this a$$ hole. Why can't I get over a total a$$ hole? Am I that pathetic? Obviously because I can't let go. HELP ME!
2006-12-20 17:17:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Figure out why you were so hung up on this person in the first place. When you figure this out you might find that this is something that you need to change about yourself. Not that the breakup was your fault but why did it hurt you so much??
2006-12-20 17:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup Rocks! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is insecurity that keeps you holding on. You wish for something between you that isn't there and most likely never will be. Respect yourself and bow out with dignity. You deserve to be with someone you don't think of as an ***hole. Figure out what you feel is absolutely necessary in a decent relationship and what is absolutely unacceptable. Don't settle for less than what's within those boundaries. Your life, and your happiness, is all about you. You create it yourself.
2006-12-20 17:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK. First calm down. Turn the tables. You must get the Led Zeppelin album with the song "Babe I Gonnna Leave You". It should help you let go but you got to pump up the volume listen to the whole album but play "Babe I'm Gonna Leave You" about 10 times.
"Dazed And Confused: and "Communication Breakdown" are helpful also. Same album.
2006-12-20 17:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard but over time I heard time heals all wounds. Maybe not in your case, but if you try hard enough and get your mind on somoene else? I don't know. I'm having the same problem. I think I like the person who said, "do you WANT to get over him/her?"
I think that you'll get over someone if you try hard enough. also if you think of them in a bad way. Like you think they did something to you in the past that was bad, so always think about that thing they did? That ought to make the feeling go away alot faster...I think.
2006-12-20 19:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask urself y do U want to get over ? Is that some1 that boring/sick/ugly/malicious/vindictive ? If he/she is like any of these then automatically u won't think or like that person.
On the other hand when u can't get over, that means he/she has something enchanting stuffed in, so stay clinged as long as it clings U.
2006-12-20 17:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by anw_esha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the expression. Dance with a stranger to get over another. Well, try it go dancing. Have fun.
2006-12-20 17:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by acestjohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre not pathetic. The longer you date/like someone.. the longer it takes to get over them. The best way to do it ..is to stop talking to them. I know its hard but it really helps.
2006-12-20 17:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a different hobby. Like Trolling.
2006-12-20 17:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by InTROLLigent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably some people wont like this answer, but.... It helps to go out with someone else...someone who thinks you are really great, beautiful and everything else. Just suck it up, and then the other guy will fade in your memory. :)
2006-12-20 17:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by rose 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find someone who is not an ***hole
2006-12-20 17:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋