wheres this guy at school that i like but i make him think that i dont like him.when he askes me y i wont hook up w/him i play stupied.he can be a really sweet at times and at times never knows when 2 stop joking around and get serious.he says the sweetest things like before we left 4 christmas break he told me he wanted me 4 christmas then again i dont know wheather he was just being a pev. some of my friends say hejust wants 2 get in my pants.wat 2 do?
2006-12-20 17:15:02 · 11 answers · asked by tay-tay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ain't nothing wrong with a little convo - you know, have a heart to heart with him on the telephone. Just talk on the phone, making no commitment to date him; but give him a chance to prove himself as a mature friend. Let him know, too, that he can't call you just anytime he wants nor can he come by your home without your permission. To violate either of these rules would let you know whether he respects you or will violate your trust. As well, you do well to put him in check when speaking with him in telephone conversations. If he says something immature, perhaps you give the negative reinforcement of saying you have to go - to get off the phone. If he says meaningful, precious things - then that gives you cause to continue the conversation. At least you begin to see his way of thinking, and the nature of his heart. It is written that "For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks."
2006-12-20 17:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha... I often wound up alone on christmas and new years. ...because I would not fall for that silly stuff. If you give in you could lose your options. I'd rather spend christmas alone than 'close my options'. I did not want children then or ever particularly... I wanted to be an artist. I did not want to be a house wife... I wanted someone else to clean up my messes. Well, I did eventually have children. They were not flawed by drugs or other. I did become an artist and I do have my messes cleaned up by others. Keep your options open. Spend a quiet christmas with reading or listening to books. or just answering questions here.
2006-12-21 01:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nahhhh dont listen to those jerks. Yes he could just want to get into your pants and really its up to you what you wanna do with him. But if he really likes you he would date you first and in time later on then you can decide if thats what you wanna do.. Dont let anyone pressure you into sleeping with anyone, its not worth it.
He knows you like him then he should show you how much he likes you back in return in a respectful way.
2006-12-21 01:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i will tell you this much right now and that is quit listening to your friends and also quit makeing this guy think that you dont like him,because i tell you this, it just sounds like your playing hard to get,so you know if you wanta be with this guy set down and have a long talk about whatever you wanta talk about and dont let your friends make your deceisions for you,im sure you know right from wrong and that you surely know what you want and dont want so you think about it and do whats right for you ok,but dont let noone else make the choices for you let your heart guide you in all the right places ok because after all your the ones that have to be happy not your friends,well good luck and let me know what ever your deceision is ok
2006-12-21 01:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by DAVE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him don't play stupid games. That's not very nice. Say sweet things to him too. Just don't let him get in your pants unless/until you are ready and you think you two are good together.
2006-12-21 01:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold back until you know what to do. Observe and listen to your gut feeling. It may be that you're better off keeping your distance, at least for now.
2006-12-21 01:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you!!!!! he probably thinks that youre really sweet so hes trying to meet u more. just go up to him and say do you like me or something cuz i do!
2006-12-21 01:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up ask him if he just wants in your pants. If you just wanna hook up with him then do it. If you want to date him just ask him! Its a lot easier than you think.
2006-12-21 01:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep w/ him and get it out of the way..dont make him wear a condom and then get pregnant or fake pregnancy and fake an abortion..then he will be urs for LIFE.
2006-12-21 01:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by b k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your electric toothbrush to school put it in your purse ,turn it on when he sits next to you...let him hear it buzz ....watch his face turn different shades of blue. when he looks your way.....lick your lips and wink at him like you want to eat him alive...and say meow....!.....and start to pant like a wild animal....make weird animal noises like a wild horse and shake your head back and forth....heehaw shake your big butt like you don['t care...shake it up in the air!!!!
2006-12-21 01:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋