I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said You don't like me anymore and walk away fast and smile at when she turn around. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Today I heard her say on the phone she said to him "I love you." In front of me. So what do you think my chances are with this girl?
2006-12-20 17:05:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the anwser to your question is this yes she likes you shes just playing games with you right now because she's with someone else,but what i dont understand is this why would you want to get yourself involved with someone who has a boy friend already,i really could understand your fellings for her if she wasnt with someone else but she is,so if i was you i would just keep on being friends and dont rush things ok just be your self and maybe and i do mean maybe,if her and her boyfriend does break up or something you just might have a better chance but dont push your luck ok,because im sure you wouldnt want someone to do that to you if you were dateing her would ya,so just set back and dont rush things let her make up her mind on what she wants ok,dont let her make a fool of you ok,its like this if it is meant for you two to be together you will but if it wasnt you wont ok so just relax and give it time ok,well anyway good luck and let me know how it turns out ok
2006-12-20 17:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by DAVE S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a second language that women are masters of.
Normal guys, have no idea it exist.
When a guy says something to a girl. Girls, filter what guys say in their "Girl Translator". What she's doing is finding out what it, REALLY Means. When they don't know what it means, they will usually say, "What is THAT, suppose to mean."
Examples:
Guy:"You look very pretty today, Amy."
[Girl Translator]-He gives me way too many compliments. He likes me for my looks. And I can have him any time. There's no challenge with him. I don't know what to say right now, so ill just say what i always say when a guy compliments me.
Girl:"Um...thank u."
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Girl: "Do u love me?"
Guy: "I love the way u say the funny things u say. Especially when i don't feel like hearing it."
[Girl Translator]- ....what? Huh???
Girl:""What is THAT, suppose to mean?"
Guy: "Your doing it again."
Girl: " Arrrrgh....."
[Girl Translator]- He doesn't let me have my way, all the time. Hes a challenge. Even though i act like I'm upset by him. Im not. I love him so much cause i cant figure him out.
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The thing with u is your letter. It says all the wrong things. Read your letter again to yourself. And see if u can filter what it really means.
She probably thinks of u as a friend. Due, to the fact that your too, Nice. Nice guys do finish last.
Move on and start fresh with a new girl.
And this time. Be a challenge.
2006-12-21 01:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by roberto3331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be trying to make you jealous by saying I love you to her boyfriend right infront of you (girls do that because they want to provoke the guy to chase them harder and make them like them more... I don't know why) Don't give up on her at all, talk to her and show her that you are really a nice and caring guy... Don't make any moves on her yet though... it's a major turnoff and it makes you seem needy. Just try to become closer friends with her, and then she might start respecting you a bit more... and possibly start to like you :^)
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-21 01:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by make love not war 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not too sure. I dont think her boyfriend would have liked it to have his girlfriend get that kind of letter... I mean..how would you feel if some guy gave that to your gf? I think she really likes the guy shes with and just likes to flirt with you. I cant really say what kind of chance you have with her until shes single.
2006-12-21 01:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. She's not available to you right now. It's totally uncool to come between her and her boyfriend. If she wants to pursue something more down the line, she will make it clear to you.
2006-12-21 01:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww that's really cute and sweet. I think you should wait until she and her bf are over then make your move...she must be really special!
2006-12-21 01:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by MT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs some time to digest all this heavy stuff.
2006-12-21 02:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your really her secret love that she is keeping you on a leash ready to pounce when no one is looking
2006-12-21 01:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by TONe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Zero and you know why,she has a BOYFRIEND.
2006-12-21 01:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no chance
2006-12-21 01:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by Yukmouth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋