I am a very loving sincere man.But it is just so hard for woman to see that in me.Maybe because I am very shy.What do I got to do to get a certain female to notice me.She is very lady like.But fun loving.she is a christian.I just do not know what I am doing wrong.Can I get some help ladies,Good imput to steer me in the right direction.
2006-12-20 16:49:10 · 11 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her like u would to ur guy friends
its easy to find out if she would love u or not, by being urself
2006-12-20 16:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you are loving and sincere but the problem is that you are trying to get her to notice you. Women want to be noticed not the other way around. If she is very ladylike it means she's been taught that a man should approach her so she would never think of approaching you first. You need to show an interest in her and if she's smart she already knows you like her and is waiting for you to hurry up. Ask her if she would like to get coffee, lunch, or something like that. If she's really a lady then she'll be flattered and accept. Good luck!!!
2006-12-20 17:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by jamie kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i agree. Just be yourself. Don't try to do any totally-not-you thing to attract or impress her. Cos that won't last. N' it may turn out sour later...If you're really sincere like you said, i'm sure you'll be in sights some days. No need to rush, is there?
BTW, you wanna know what galz expect to get from guys? Just as simple as "honest love n' carin from the very first till the very end"
2006-12-20 17:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Da--?????-????H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's ladylike she probably expects you to be gentleman-like. Be polite to her. Show her your sincerity. I'm shy, and I always feel that my thoughtfulness doesn't get through to people because I'm not so in-your-face. But once you start spending more time with her and talking to her, she'll see the real you. Maybe you could go to church with her.
2006-12-20 16:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a personality. If you don't step out from everyone else, you'll never be noticed, simple as that. Confidence is key. Be funny and outgoing and hopefully she'll see a new side to you that'll warm her up to you.
2006-12-20 16:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I understand your situation, Christmas is coming how about giving her something. Next try to give her more attention, like helping her, or something. By the time pass by I hope she will notice.
2006-12-20 17:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat her up. create inside jokes. see what you have in common. as you guys get more and more familiar with each other both of you will ease up and you'll become less shy. Then she can see how loving and sincere you are!
2006-12-20 17:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should start by being her friend! Dont get her to notice you like that yet. Girls like it when your their friend first because then we dont feel unconfortable. Make her feel confortable with you by being her friend. Then when you her friend and you both have gotten to know each other, tell her how you feel about her. Thats how I would do things. Member, friend first, then relationship. Dont rush things!!
2006-12-20 16:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by dotbrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO CHURCH WITH HER ! SHOW HER YOU ARE WHAT SHE NEEDS A HONEST CARING LOVING KINDA OF GUY WHO KNOWS TO PUT GOD 1ST
2006-12-20 16:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't trust guys now, because they are dogs. maybe she's just being careful. those religious people are weird about relationships also. idk what to tell you to do.............???
2006-12-20 16:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋