If a lesbian asks a guy out to an event, dance, or whatever, without his knowledge that she's a homosexual, would you consider that wrong?
2006-12-20 16:47:59 · 21 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not if he knows that it's just a friendly date.
2006-12-20 16:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how you wanna see it. If a lesbian dates a guy out, what's the reason for that? Is she bi? But if she is thinking of giving it a try at a relationship, why not? Disclosing any information regarding oneself is at the discretion of oneself. You might be afraid that the guy ends up liking you, but so what. Try thinking that a straight lady with a lot of guys after her, is she gonna please all of them?
2006-12-21 00:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by glastnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it is supossed to be an date it would be wrong not to tell
the guy but if it is a less serious event then I don't see why you would have to tell him. It all depends on if you know whether or
not the guy likes you also. If you know he does you must tell him right away so he will not start flirting and then get his feelings hurt.
2006-12-21 00:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not on the first date or a friendship date type thing. I try and tell my female dates about my crossdressing as soon as possible and that might be the second date.
2006-12-21 00:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm. Why is a lesbian asking a man out on a date? Isn't that a bit odd? I think that something that big is something he should know though.
2006-12-21 00:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by achristian520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she asked the guy out for a "date" then it'd be wrong yes - majorly wrong!!
If it was just on a friends basis then its probably preferred that she tell the guy but not absolutly nessecary!
2006-12-21 00:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as long as you are just asking to be escorted and you don't give the impression that you are looking for a long-term relationship or (especially) a sexual encounter. If your intensions are honest, and you just simply want an escort, then sexual preferance does not matter. Just be clear that you don't want to "date" and don't make him believe he's gonna get lucky! =-)
2006-12-21 00:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM A BISEXUAL FEMALE AND I HAVE A POLYAMOUROUS RELATIONSHIP. BEST BE HONEST FROM THE START- you may get a lot of" o can i watch or can i screw your best friend too- or the typical male lesbian bullshit but being honest will do you better than non at all. trust me.
2006-12-21 00:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it at all in my book.
But i would want proof. like bringing another women into our relationship to watch.
whats the problem???
she could of said she was a ex-crack hoe!!!
2006-12-21 00:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she didn't invite her friend/s and you end up as the boloney in a human sandwich.
It would be wrong then.
btw chuck, great pic. another form of God.
2006-12-21 00:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Rowdy Yayhoot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋