how do i get her love?

Question

shes my best friend in the university.she already has a boy friend. but this fellow is not a very good person.and i do fear for her,I love a lot of things about her,and we do have a good relationship as friends. I dont want to loose her friendship,but how can i tell what i feel about her?what should i do?

Answer 1

ecstasy, or molly. just make sure she wants to have fun, she will love u and the carpet, and thegrass, and the plates etc....

Answer 2

It doesn't sound to me like she needs another bf, she needs a friend even the best of friends can be broken up by someones good intentions if it is not what she is ready to hear, which if she hasn't left him yet may very well be the case. Stay her friend for now, or you can even try mind games (i.e. such as don't talk to her and when she asks why explain to her you can't continue to watch her be in this situation if she isn't going to attempt to get out of it especially when you care so much about her and her well being) She needs a psychiatrist rather than a relationship to learn how to set healthy boundries. She doesn't need more on her plate right now. Unfortunately, we tend to run to our heros which may or may not be healthy when we do see we need to leave, we didn't check this person out we just run for goodness sake to comfort and what seems safer at the moment. If she doesn't see the need to get help you are currently talking to the wind. She has to get mad enough to want something better. But beware she may think you are to nice of a guy if these are the kinds of relationships she is used to. She needs attention, affection, and approval. And remember actions speak louder than words.

Answer 3

Tell here you have a problem you need to talk to someone about.
Say you have met lots of girls you like but none feel as serious about certain things as you do.

She will ask, what things?
Say true honesty, integrity, understanding, compromise, and sacrifice.

Say, you need a women that loves these principles more than personal gratification.
You want your love and relationship to be worth more than the kind of depressing novelties(relationships)you see everywhere.

I need a relationship with a stronger foundation.
It's one thing to like a girl, have things in common or similar goals.

But to be one in purpose, to share and cherish all good things is to be joyful together, something not worth losing.

Then tell her you are gradually searching for a girl with these kind of hopes and desires. And because you and here are good friends and you have general desire for here to have the joy and happiness of true love, you have come to make your offer.

Then tell how much you like her and could love her. That true love is more about choices than fate. Do some research on the subjects.

Then if she is not sure at this point if you needs you, act disappointed and discouraged a little. Ask here to recommend any girl who she thinks is a great and wonderful girl that has love in her,
Because you know every guy needs a girl like this to be really happy in.

Answer 4

Well, since he is only a boyfriend, you have a right to try & court her. Tell her how you feel. Just don't cheat w/her while she is in a relationship! She must break that off first before you get cozy!
And ideally after you guys marry, but that's a level that hard to broach these days. I didn't wait til marriage, either, but it doesn't mean others can't aspire to do better!

Answer 5

It is very kind that you care bout her.....y dont u go and talk to her boyfriend make sure that he is not bad......have u eva thought she might be happy with him.......


if u like her you have to tell her how u feel......if she doesnt feel the smae way tehn ask her if u can still be friends.......do u no that she isnt the only girl out there in the world that u will like or likes u


open your options

Answer 6

Well i think you should help her out and maybe hint that that boy of hers isnt such a good person. Point out the obvious and maybe she will reward you. But ya telling her that you feel that way about her might actually be a good idea.

Answer 7

well...first you are intersting in a gurl that is in a realtionship, and that not good to try to get urself involved into that mess. If you really want her, you need to take her our and tell her how this guy is REALLY BAD FOR HER...and tell her how you feel about her. Honestly it takes a lot of guts to tell someone that you like them. It hard for your self to let your self be in that position to get hurt. I would approach with caution and let urself be careful.

Answer 8

dude, get a temporary hott chick to bone until nature takes his course and you friend dumps her dumba** boyfriend. Once that happens be there for her and all that crap, then she's all yours once she heals. Oh yea, dump that temp chick, (you gotta get a temp chick so it doesn't look obvious). She value your friendship and support and that's a great foundation for a great relationship

Answer 9

are you afraid of losing her or getting an answer you dont want I am kinda in the same situation but I think you should be honest and tell her if you dont you will always wish you would have.

Answer 10

Tell her how you feel and then back off.
Be hard to get.
Make her wonder about you.
Remember that you are the catch.
People want want they do not have.
If you try to hard you may drive her away.
Peace out.

Answer 11

YOU CANT MAKE SOME FEEL AS YOU DO, JUST BE THERE
FOR AS A FRIEND BUT KEEP AT THAT,BECAUSE YOU THE
ONE THAT WILL GET HURT, SHE HAS SOMEONE ELSE
AND YOU MAY FEEL THAT HE NOT RIGHT FOR HER,
BUT ONLY SHE KNOW HOW SHE FEEL. AND REGARDLESS
OF WHAT YOU DO, IF SHE DOES NOT SEE YOU AS
SOMEONE THAT SHE CAN BE WITH, IT REALLY IS A LOST
CAUSE FOR YOU.