ok, for the past 2 yrs, i have loved some1, infact.. that person is my 1st love... but since she didnt loved me back like i did after our 4months relationship. Now, i have moved on.. first it was going great with this new girl.. even though she is not my girlfriend, we are very close, and i'm pretty sure she like-likes me... but the new girl now is in taiwan with her family and she will be away for a month leaving me alone without any comunication to her. a few days ago, i text message my ex (the 1st girl) and she replyed very well (not like before only a few words)
so, the question is, is it ok if i go out with my ex? is it ok if i patch things up with my ex? will the new girl be jealous?
2006-12-20 16:33:42 · 13 answers · asked by ray b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No!its wrong cause then you will be cheating and that's unfair to your current gf,either tell her the truth and patch up things your ex but remember your ex could not love you before and she might not love you any more know maybe you reading into much over this reply from your ex ,so first find out how she feels before making hast decisions.
2006-12-20 16:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you need to be more specific and get clarity in relationships. Before moving on, if you are still interested in woman no. 1 then let her know how you feel and ask her if she feels the same. If she says that she feels the same GREAT. If not, move on. (be fair to yourself) you already invested 4 months. I alway's believe in closing the door before seeing someone new. Also, if you still like the new girl, then text her and ask her if she is interested in a relationship. If she says she is, then TELL her to enjoy her visit with family and that you will be awaiting her return. Also, let her know, that if she has time, you would love to hear from her. I understand that she's with her family, but, please... Trust me, if a woman wants a man, she will make herself available. Don't worry, you won't look pressed, You will look like a mature, direct, person, who refuses to be strung along. It's 2006, with all the things going on in the world. It's time people started talking. I hope this helps. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want. There are plenty of women who want to be in a relationship. The single life isn't all it's said to be.
2006-12-21 01:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Snobunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go backwards out of loneliness. The problems you had before are still there lurking around between you, just not presently surfacing. Yes, the other girl would probably be jealous. But you don't need anyone's permission to go out with her again. You will learn your own lessons, good and bad.
2006-12-21 00:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have issues. if you are still in love with the ex, why worry about the new one. If the ex does not love you, MOVE ON, GET OVER HER, but don't strike up something serious with another until you are really over the ex. you are dragging too much with you into the next relationship.....give yourself some time to know yourself again...
2006-12-21 00:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by SAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that incompitant. stay true the girl #2 like you say you have moved on from girl 1 so do not try to patch things up with her...I am not say do not stop talking to girl 1 but let her know that you are kind of seeing some one.
2006-12-21 00:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. don't patch things up unless u want to break things off with the other girl. Going out on an innocent "date" is fine. But the minute it turns into something else, u must figure out what u want and break it off with someone.
2006-12-21 00:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know better kid! while you have the chance and the time to enjoy your friends, go ahead. Learn along the way, and enjoy life. Nothing is wrong with what you want to do, it is a matter of how you handle your conduct. Happy Hollidays!
2006-12-21 00:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by ms. Perry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT WRONG ,YOU NEED TO LEAVE THE FIRST ONE ALONG, SHE ONLY THERE FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE
GOING THOUGH SOMETHING WITH THE SECOND. BUT
THAT NOT THE WAY TO DO THIS, IF YOU FEEL THAT
YOUR CURRENT GIRLFRIEND CAN BE THERE. THEN
'MOVE ON. BUT DONT GO FROM GIRL TO GIRL.THAT
TROUBLE. ESPECIALLY SINCE SHE DID NOT FEEL AS
YOU DID IN THE FIRST PLACE.
2006-12-21 00:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until you are married it is ok to go out with whomever you want including your ex
2006-12-21 00:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by drepeterson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you would be a complete asswipe if you got back togethor with your ex while she was in tiwan wihout telling her. but since you arnt technically dating go for it.
2006-12-21 00:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋