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I'm 20 yr old male and virgin still

2006-12-20 16:27:14 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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As well as you've known and realize the consequences of sex activities (pregnancy, STDs, addicted, etc.) and as well as you can responsible of sex relationship, I think it's OK whatever your age. But it's better if you do that with your wife (someone whom you love and responsible with). Either with your partner.

I still can see younger guys who have married and become good and responsible person for their family.

So, don't think too much about virginity, you're male. Keep studying or working hard for your future, the right girl will come later on and you will have excited experiences when you have sex with your wife, if you're still virgin.

2006-12-20 16:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by eddy 3 · 0 0

There is no perfect age. I'm a chick so of course I'm going to say well make sure you're in love, it's all perfect, blah blah... but that's rarely the case. Make sure you and your girlfriend are comfortable... use protection.... there is no perfect age or time, it's the way you make it. It doesn't just happen. Of course make sure the person is over the minimum legal age :P that's scary young in some places so i'd say over 18 for sure... even that isn't mature enough IMO. People have a lot of growing up to do these days and waiting isn't going to harm you.

2006-12-20 16:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0 0

There is no perfect age or minimum age. It should be with someone you love and respect and actually be married because that means you are prepared to make a life long commitment. I know it sounds corny but I am speaking from experience and if I had the chance to go back and do things different I would.

2006-12-20 16:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by cecimad 2 · 0 0

I wouldn't say there is a perfect age to have sex, however, at the very least, 18 at a minimum. There's no shame in remaining a virgin until you are married. Don't let anyone pressure you into having sex just because they have and say it's the thing to do.

2006-12-20 16:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Catgul 2 · 0 0

The perfect age is whenever u r ready (n obviously over the age of 18), I know alot of girls that lost their virginity b4 the age of 18, they wished they could have turned back the hands of time....b/c when u r a young girl u fall for all of the DUMB BULLSH!T that the males tell u to get in ur pants. Matter of fact the best time to loose ur virginity is when u r independent.........n same should go for ur partner..........o n of course FEMALES MAKE SURE UR IN LOVE, B/C THOSE R THE ONLY MEN WHO REALLY DESERVE IT!

2006-12-20 16:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Diva 1 · 0 0

I don't think the age matters. I believe that maturity does, however. Just be glad that you probably have the emotional stability that younger teenagers did not have. I think the 17/18 range is a good minimum.

2006-12-20 16:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jane 2 · 0 0

I was older than you are. There is no perfect age. When you do have sex the first time, do it because you have feelings for the girl not just for the physical thing.

2006-12-20 16:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by cm f 3 · 0 0

20 could be a good age

2006-12-20 16:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by drepeterson 2 · 0 0

From now on. I think your partner should be at least say 18-19.

Good luck to ya.

2006-12-20 16:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

since u're askin, im gonna give u an answer:
ONLY when u're already married to ur wife..AND ONLY with ur wife..
so it depends on wat age u get married at..
i know i sound like some 'I'm-Mr-Holy' in the midst of all these other answers, but lemme tell u this..
im 20 too, and virgin, and im gonna keep my virginity for my wife..nothin less.. i guess it's real tough to resist the temptation, eh?..but hey, that's the minimum that we can do to say to our wives, "I love you", right?
i mean, i also want my wife to say to me, "I've saved myself for you and you only." don't you?..i mean, i dunno bout u..
they can say all that about sexually transmitted disease n everythin else, but how bout love? if we can't even control ourselves for now, how the hell are we gonna do it when we get married to our wives?..
if u don't wanna do it for urself, then do it for me, bro..
don't have sex with anyone but ur wife.. let her have that privilege.. and someday, maybe u'll be grateful u did urself a favor..

2006-12-20 17:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0 0

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