Well, obviously as a female it is better to have beauty. I've got good looks but also have a brain, but at the same time that is all that guys look at. It just hit me that guys always stare at my boobs and don't even listen to what I have to say. I rant on about philosophy and other interesting topics but they just stare at my giant boobs and nod their heads up and down.
Okay, this really bothers me sometimes. But on the other hand, at least I always have guys talking to me or showing interest in me. When you are ugly, no one will even give you the chance to speak, or pay any attention to you. But on the other hand, when a guy actually does like you, he likes your mind, not your body. But your chances are slimmer.
But their is this satisfaction when you know you've got the brains and know when someone wants to hear you've got to say rather than feel what you have on your body.
2006-12-20 16:25:57 · 28 answers · asked by agnosticaatheistica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This maybe prejudice, but I believe in beauty as the key in life. Beauty gives attention needed to recognize the brains (or lack of brains) within a person and evoke this characteristic into the minds of others.
On the other hand, having more brains than beauty gives one less of a center of attraction to be noticed and thus, less of an audience to spread one's intelligence to..
2006-12-20 16:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO i think it is a matter of personal preference. Not all people are attracted to the same things. Generally speaking however, looks are the first thing people look at. That is what initiates interest then when you get to know the person better, depending on personal preference again, they may or may not be willing to take the intelligence factor into consideration. Some people might be attracted to a fine looking person, but once they get to know whats behind the wheel may not be interested.You got to realize the we men and even women of course are human and God has programmed into us certain natural urges that are indeed natural. That is were self control comes into play but those urges are always going to be there.
2006-12-21 00:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by afrprince77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told when I kept getting insulted to look at their private parts... stare a hole in them. Refuse to look anywhere else. Sometimes they get the point.
When you have brains... and beauty sometimes you want to be more known for the brains thing and accert your self in that area attempting to be equal. I too have huge boobs. Once I even had them reduced to a b but they grew again.
I simply reply to them as an equal mind with no gender. An adult and was told if they didn't respond in like to turn around and walk away. Do not play with them until they grow up.
So keep your beauty, your brains and practice equal maturity. It works. You are dealing with a child. ..but don't let them go to parenting. Adults only please.
2006-12-21 00:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a pretty special guy to appreciate an attractive and intelligent female. most men will be intimidated by your brains, they are naturally competitve by nature. and most women will be intimidated by your beauty, they just naturally hate other women. i dont agree with the ugly theory you have going on. what you didnt talk about was spirituality...that connects on every level, smart, pretty, dumb or ugly...this is where you will find most peace. life is hard it helps to be smart and pretty. but you dont leave here with your looks or your brains, only your spirit. integrity honesty and love are the keys to good living and they are all that really matter when you get down to it...if a man(not just some guy) a real man is interested in you it will be for your spirit, not your IQ or your breast size.
2006-12-21 00:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you don't have to bother these guys,they might be perverts who knows? But not all guys are like that. It's true that people want to look their best but it's not advicable to think looks are better than brains. Because if you keep thinking like that,it may help you to get attention but not from the right kind of people. While if you are smart,it beneficts you and other people more!
2006-12-21 00:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are attracted by physical beauty first and foremost. Men are very visual, and so they focus first on what looks good to them.
Their interest in your brain comes right after they look you over and like what they see.
Brains alone is not enough. Any guy that tells you that is playing with you. I never seen a guy look at a woman's brain first!
2006-12-21 00:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by dkuddle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can earn a lot of money using your brain, you can buy beauty later on. Beauty may be bought but brains can't be. Also, the ability to support yourself comfortably and not having to stay in a bad relationship cannot be overrated.
2006-12-21 00:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by Nat R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every straight man loves big boobs and only the smart ones will listen to what you got to say. Allthough at the end of the day we all just want some butt. My advise is to find a guy that your attracted to and eventually he will listen to what you got to say.
2006-12-21 00:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by TailGunner420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although everyone loves beauty I do believe that brains eventually outweigh beauty because beauty fades and then you are left to discover or figure things that have nothing to do with beauty such retirement, diversifying, taxes, and how not to lose your shirt whether in the stock market or in the bedroom.
2006-12-21 00:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally disagree wth ur 1st sentence, brains r most important. id rather b making millions by doing doctory ( obvipoulsy with much hard work n studying) then standing in a grocery store 4 life making like 12 dollars an hour.
bit everyone has their own opinion!
Merry Christmas
Karido
2006-12-21 00:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋