I'm just a B cup and everyone else in my family was blessed with boobs. So, I'm thinking about getting implants.. just trying to get some opinions.
2006-12-20 15:47:26 · 37 answers · asked by omgrachie 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Oh yea, I'm married and my husband really doesn't mind if I get them. Since I've been with him, I lost a bit of weight (was 140, now I'm around 100) so I lost my boobs in the process. I have one padded bra that works wonders on me but when I take it off I'm like... noooooo!
2006-12-20 15:54:03 · update #1
no, no, no, no. resist the urge please to conform to our society's sick idea of what makes a woman beautiful. the most beautiful thing a woman can aquire is confidence & a love for herself & her body. ps- I'm a B cup, too and damn I rock that ****-
2006-12-20 15:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You have a lot of things to consider.
Get to the root of your insecurities. Would implants really help you feel better? Are you doing this to make yourself seem more attractive to men? Most men I know think implants are gross.
I'm a natural D cup and honestly I wish I were smaller. I can't just go buy whatever shirt I want, I have to consider if i look trashy or if it fits my bust, etc. I wish I were a B cup, but everyone wants what they don't have, right?
Your surgery will carry risks as any surgery does, and it is expensive. Can you really justify the cost just to make your chest a bit bigger? Are you ok with the idea of saline or silicone in your chest? Complications can happen during or after the surgery that may lead to scarring, will cost you more money and healing time, etc.
Are you aware that in 20 yrs or so you will have to get your implants replaced again? Will you want to go through the whole ordeal again? Did you know that implants limit breastfeeding capabilities sometimes? Are you ok with explaining to your future bf/husband/kids why you got implants?
Just a few questions to consider. Ultimately it's up to you and some ladies are very happy with their implants, but of course for as many happy people there are just as many unhappy ones. This is not a decision to take lightly. Consider it for a year or more, and make sure you get to the root of your issues. No one can decide this but you. Good luck :)
2006-12-20 15:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! It is not a competition! Wear a properly fitting bra, B is a very nice size. Hey large breasts can be fun, but really take a good look at those artificially enhanced women. They look like Monster trucks! All shiny with bulging balloons. Original equipment is the way to go. Unless you want to attract the kind of guy that drives trucks with five foot tall tires.
Seriously, you are probably far better looking the way nature made you. Many many men like and prefer normally built women.
2006-12-20 15:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by bumppo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you ahve to ask yourself is whether or not thay will make you feel more secure with yourself. Will they make you fell better about being you. It seems to me that whatever body immage issues you may have, implants wont solve them, in fact they make them worse because you'll have that little thing in the back of you head wondering if it is you, or the implants. IF you are going to take such drasitc steps, be certian it is for the right reason and not just becasue you feel somehow less than others simply becasue of some physical difference, a diference that ultimately you will have to face whether you have them or not. A womans worth is NOT in the size of her breasts, but in the heart beneath them....consider that...
2006-12-20 16:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by kveldulf_gondlir 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think it will make you any happier? I know this easier to say than to do but you should learn to love your body the way it is. I am the same size but I'm happy with it because I think they look good on me. Big boobs would look funny on me. If you do end up doing it, do it for yourself and not for anyone else (that includes your husband. He should be telling you that you are beautiful the way you are). Just make sure you don't go in expecting to come out a happier person, you will be very disappointed.
2006-12-20 17:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Lolita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also a B cup (38 B to be exact), and am perfectly comfortable with my breast size. Breast implants are so fake and unnatural looking, and therefore ugly in my eyes. I personally think that girls look best au natural, but that's just my opinion. I would never get plastic surgery unless I was horribly deformed in an accident, but that's just me.
2006-12-23 04:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breast implants won't fix your self esteem so focus on that first. then if you find the breasts aren't to fill a void so be it. But remember that because the silicone is pushing on nerves you can loose sensation of your breasts. Wich personally what is the point. So you look good for a man but don't feel good physically. No fair half of the pleasure of sex for me is the breast. Woman already have a disadvantage when it comes to orgasm don't take away any more.
2006-12-20 17:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by jodi H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 36 double AA.. Yes, there are very few bras to fit me, but then again, I have very few friends that can wear shirts like I do without a bra. Easier on the back and exercising as well. I had thought about implants but so many people are getting them, it would seem like I wouldn't be different from anyone else. I like my size just the way it is. If other people don't, it's there problem. I'm blessed with a nice booty and my boyfriend is a true butt man.. Focus on your aspects of your body that you like and accentuate them.
2006-12-20 15:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't have to ask for opinions, because this is a very personal decision. Just ask yourself, if it will make you truly happy. If you want to go ahead, just make sure you are well informed of the procedure and all the risks and find yourself a very experienced and highly reputable doctor. Good luck : )
2006-12-21 01:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! If the guy you date doesn't like you for you, then what's the point? Look, I'm a guy, and I've had them all trust me. It doesn't make the sex any different. It doesn't mean you're inadequate in any way. Stay real, find the man of your dreams, have kids, love lots!
2006-12-20 16:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way! smaller is better then fake any day! a handfull is all you need. too much can really get in the way. All that really matters is if you're happy though. don't live you'r life trying to impress other people or make them happy. you can never really be happy until you're happy with yourself and not what others think of you
2006-12-20 17:23:48 · answer #11 · answered by fairlyodd44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋