at school i have started to get really discouraged about talking to people. i have basically lost all of my friends from middle school and im trying to make new ones but it's really hard because i was friends with alot of people who are in those groups and it makes us weird. plus it seems like they won't let anyone new in. help! what should i do?
2006-12-20 14:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stick with whichever group you are happy in, new friends are cool, but old ones will stick with you forever. sooner or later you have to ask yourself.....do i want people to hate me for who i'm or do i want people to love me for who i'm not??!!.....anyways, everyone goes through that stage, i know i did.....and i choose the old friends( the band) and i didn't care what anyone else thought of me or my friend......anyways...this song is what me and my friends (the band) played at our graduation, it was as good as the orginal but it was very very close.....enjoy, hope it helps you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dly8n5HcKv4
2006-12-20 15:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to fit in, the best way to find a group of friends is to let them see you for who you are. Get involved in some school activities or groups. Sports is what introduced me to a lot of people. Good luck!
2006-12-20 15:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! I was in the same situation in high school as a freshman. I suggest to start making your friends rooted from your class instead of being a weirdo coming up to some click. But remember, your new friends should be genuinely welcoming to you. If not, then they are not your friends. You are your only real friend aka "Self Respect".
2006-12-20 15:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this great college course: Interpersonal relationships. I can't remember the book's name but it taught me to give at least 4 choices for relationships rather than cornering others for control. It dealt with the different cultural aspects of others. See if you can look for a book like that. It wasn't a big book... but I loaned mine. More like a workbook but you could read it without the course.
2006-12-20 15:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're depressed, i mean clinically depressed. you should go see a psycologist, i swear they're not as scary as a lot of people think, and other than that you've got to surround yourself with people that make you feel good and more than that you've got to have self confidence. get busy. get involved with clubs or sports or something.
2006-12-20 14:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clics are hard. you either decide to join one or you make your stand. You need friends in your life.
I would encourage to you find others that are of noble character. You can encourage each other in your day to day struggles.
2006-12-20 15:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by 2 know Him & 2 Make Him known 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont push it just go with the flow. take one day at a time. enjoy life as it comes.
2006-12-20 14:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approaches people to let you in their group. practice makes perfect
2006-12-20 14:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by alyson.s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ppl who share the same interst as u
2006-12-20 14:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by DeathBe4Dishonor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more loquacious . talk to everyone and become sort of friends with them and eventually you'll find your nitch .
2006-12-20 14:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by anisah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋