Im23.Had a GF.Met her on internet&spoke very much at the phone&after a while met.She was from a town thats at 250-300KM away from my town.I visited her 13 times.Loved her very much.She was the only one that showed care towards me.When I was visiting her,I took the 5.30AM train&arrived in her town at 9.45AM,&were together for 6 hours eachtime.My love.These were 6happy months,but I was also unhappy that I couldnt see her more often&bc she was not a correct person&she was always telling me how stupid&imoral was her best girlfriend(that was also sick of breast cancer,she said).She was student at maths&had the highest marks possible(her proffs said she was great mathematician).We were supposed to meet after her last exam.Finished her last exam&she finished with me too.Didnt speak much after that.Im not hansome to find another.Tryed to find a GF for last 3/4 year,no succes.Miss a kiss.Help me find some happyness.Im virgin.Should I go to a prostitutite?No girl looks at me with love.PLS:over20
2006-12-20 14:52:59 · 15 answers · asked by honestman23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had some dates with 2 girls, but after the second dates, none of them wanted to speak with me after that... I am very unhappy all the time.When a girls smiles at me I become sad and I think that she wants something from me(but never intimacy).Where can I find a girl that sais something nice to me,that touches me with something,that smiles at me,and I can feel loved by her?Is there any girl that wants my love?Is there any girl that doesn't care that I am not hansome and love for what I have inside and for who I am and for my correctness, loyalty, goodness... if I am like this... Nothing I do is good. I need help, but I don't know where to look for it. My parents are always shouting at me because I can't find a girlfriend; my friends are very competitive when it comes to girls...I don't want to sleep alone. How can I look for a GF, besides in discos, because I'm shy and not hansome at all?Should I stop looking for a girlfriend from now on,considering I didnt find one for the last year?
2006-12-20 15:06:19 · update #1
My English is good,but I tried to shorten what I have to say,because I didn't know I can write more than the one paragraph.Sorry if I made it not understandable bacause of this.I would pay a prostitute for anything, even for "french-kisses" and nothing else(she has to be clean, anyway,damn it).I'm sorry I wasted for nothing the first space(because I shortened every word).I just want to be intimate with a girl(in any way, even if this means that we are just talking, even if we are friends).
I'm very sad and I don't think I would be able to go on a date with a girl and she wouldn't feel bored of me (because I can't think of anything, I am just scared, worried, and my body hurts and is tired everywhere, in the muscles, in the bones, in the mind, in the heart).
And I feel guilty.Guilty as much as a person can be in his life.
And I'm sick with myself and my life.And I admire many people but I also hate them, because I see they are powerfull and once they took out of someone's happyness.
2006-12-20 15:40:01 · update #2
Seeing yourself as worthy of love will make women want you. Trust me, it works.
But the "nobody loves me" sick boy routine is like woman repellant.
2006-12-20 14:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Jonas Bros. SUCK!!!! They can't write or sing for crap and when they do cover, oh my god, they ruin the whole song! They covered 2 Busted(an uh-mazing British band) songs, "What I Go To School For" and "Year 3000" and ruined them. Did they even mention that they didn't write the song? Nooooo. And they changed the words around! The song was perfect as is! Nobody wants to hear about the Jonas high school girl crush woes! A Busted song about having a crush on a teacher? Yes. Don't even get me started on Year 3000. The Beatles tottally own. I love them. I saw the movie Across the Universe and I want to Hold your hand is one of the most romantic songs I've ever heard. He doesn't want to screw her brains out or some other horrid sick horny boy fantasy. He just wants to hold her hand. Be still my heart. You know a song is well written if it can be sung by actors and still rock. But that's just me.
2016-03-29 02:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek out Co-dependence Anonymous
2006-12-20 15:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Road 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathise with you but the prostitute will not be much of an answer. Look closely at your question. You almost have poetry here. The loneliness will drive your poetry and the poetry could get you some recognition and maybe a girl friend. Good luck.
2006-12-20 14:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by St N 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No.... Dont do that...
Thats very sad but dont give in to the temptation. Find a nice girl, and talk to her become friends. Any girl can be yours with the right attitude. My Advice Friends first... Personality Overules looks
2006-12-20 14:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey dont do any thing stupid for a girl is it really worth it i dont think so all you need to do is find a girl your age or around there and hook up good luck
2006-12-20 15:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by xoxbabexoxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe dont look for it so hard it will make it harder for you be happy with your life as is and then something will come out of nowhere everytime
as for the prostitute thing please dont thats unsanitary
you seen really sweet and believe it or not sweet guys do get girls work on you english a little no offence its cute though
2006-12-20 14:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by disk_dragon 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you need some .50 calliber asperin.
2006-12-20 14:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jerk my flergan! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a little more confidence in your life and laugh it off. Get on with your life and do not feel sorry for your self.
2006-12-20 14:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try loving yourself first. With all the time you spent chasing after her there was not reason to chase after you!
2006-12-20 14:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by TBAR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋