I like this boy that goes to my school. My old friend told me that she liked him when I started liking him. So now she is getting all mad at me and says that she liked him first. But when she told me that she liked him I alwayz said that he was ugly, just to cover that I liked him!!! But now we want to know who he likes. What should I do???
2006-12-20 14:34:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know your in school... but don't be highschool drama.... life is life, you can't just "say you like someone, and he's hands off" in the real world it's all's fair in love and war. When me and the boys go out and see a girl we like, it's game on. Who can get her number or get a date with her. And whoever does happen to, the others give congrats on a job well done. The whole "i said I liked him first so he's mine" bit is very immature... what if he doesn't like that girl... what if he likes you... then she's gonna be pissed at you right? but for what, cause he has feelings, and they are aimed at you? That's life, try to talk to her and be mature!
2006-12-20 14:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Wsdm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been friends for a while. Don't let this come between you. Talk with her and make a pact, that neither of you will go for him. For all you know, he may like someone and not have any interest in either of you. It would be sad to throw away your friendship over something meaningless.
2006-12-20 14:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hye... a friendship is ruin just because of a boy...
how can you let this happen. is that boy like Brad Pitt or something? ok, just give up. find another boy to like. i mean, there's a lot of better boys...
you'll feel regret when you let a boy ruin your friendship with your old friend.
if the boy you like, likes you too, that's great. just find another cute boy for your friend ok.
good luck girl...
2006-12-20 14:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by alyson.s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still at school. Stop flapping. Concentrate on your studies and be friends with everyone. There's plenty of time for serious romance in your life later ... in a few years time.
2006-12-20 14:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Christopher P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, your only young TELL HIM,GET IN FIRST!!! you will make lots of friends in life, if she's a real friend she will be happy for you if not tell her to piss off. he could be the one. he could not be too, but your here on earth to live for you and your life,not her. think of this, how many people die every day not saying or doing something they wanted to, sept 11, ring any bells! tell him girl! and tell him about her too if you want just make sure you look so hot and irrisitable that he wont care!! :)
2006-12-20 14:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by jo.joggers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's your old friend, why do you care if she's mad at you? all's fair in love and war. you can't make someone like you anyway so all your stress over this may be for nothing if this guy doesn't even care that you like him.
2006-12-20 14:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by ☠orcelina☠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be the better person and let her have him if he likes her, but if he doesnt like either of you then just stop its not worth the trouble.
2006-12-20 14:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by basenjicrazed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HO's before BRO's. Cant let this dude come between the two of you and let him take his own actions......Just go for it already
2006-12-20 14:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being bitches to each other, its just a guy, he has a say in who he dates as well
us guys have a phrase... it goes liek this:
bros before hoes
good luck
2006-12-20 14:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by shteve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was really your friend, she wouldn't get all mad at for sure.well if you want to know if he likes you or your friend better, then just go ask him.
2006-12-20 14:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋