Yesterday night, I asked my boyfriend which did he thinks have the great love to each of us, is it he or me? then he answered me, "you, is it obvious , you give your love to me 95% while I, i give my love to you 90%, but i still love you". From that answered, I realized that he didn't love me the way i love him. I just wanna feel that he loves me more than i love him but ,sadly, he's not. And I thought that's the reason why it is hard for him to make a sacrifice for me. Help me guys/gals, i will appreciate your help. tnx!
2006-12-20 14:28:29 · 15 answers · asked by mickey12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rule 1 is probably never ask a guy this sort of thing. It's a complex issue that will lead to complex reactions. The best thing to do is to take pride and joy in the fact that he is with you, right now, and that as long as you love him, he will love you back. If you're afraid of losing him, then you should re-evaluate your emotions. If he wanted to be elsewhere, then he probably would leave. It's really that simple.
2006-12-20 14:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Josh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's very little difference between 90% and 95%. He loves you just as much as you love him as neither of you are loving the other 100%.
2006-12-20 22:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you need to be loved like that shows me you crave attention. If you love someone, you love them. You obviously need attention or something. You seem to just want to be told you're loved to win some kind of competition with yourself. I feel bad if this is the case.
2006-12-20 22:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take it so hard. maybe he feels you are putting more into the relationship. btw loving someone differently is what makes it exiting, if you cooed at eachother day in and day out, you would feel repetitive and love couldn't florish.
2006-12-20 22:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip
if you think you can quantify love in percentages you need help, people love each other in their own way and this can never be measured against each other geez!
2006-12-20 22:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is mostly definitly ok to be mad at your bf just have a good reason if you are mad
i would talk to him and tell him that you dont feel loved
2006-12-20 22:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by *meggie* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls are more emotional and show it more than guys ever will. dont expect him to love you more. thats a dumb question that u asked him, so you cant get mad at his answer.
2006-12-20 22:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't question who loves whom more. Enjoy your life and eachother.
2006-12-20 22:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a bad ? to ask in the 1st place!!!!
2006-12-20 22:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him if he wont go out of his way for you and you go out of your way for him
2006-12-20 22:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋