I'm a young bride to-be, and am getting married in less than a month. How should I prepare for my wedding night, and what do I need to do once I'm there? How does this whole thing work? Only serious answers please, with some detail. Thanks!
2006-12-20 14:25:59 · 14 answers · asked by jane p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Priceless times like this are the ones we dream of and yet in a flash it goes away so quickly....
Despite all that you have to do and all the other important people and opinions remember it is YOU AND YOUR GROOM'S DAY.... You two must be happy.......
After the wedding take the opportunity to meet everyone and take tons of pics. Afterall, when are you ever going to have all of the most important people in your life in one place ever again?? not likely.... record some speeches of you and your husband to be of the days before and how you feel about each other.... save on CD as .wav .....
Focus on the important things like family, friends, and the joining of all of you as one..... intimacy later will be natural but enjoying time with everyone especially grandparents and parents is limited and should be high priority--
You will be tired so be prepared to be wiped out! Try if at all possible to rest the days before at least 8-10 hrs/day so that when the big day comes you can enjoy it!
lots more but there you go.... a start....
2006-12-20 14:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by eastern NC Sensei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean how does this whole thing work? Its your wedding night honey, not another wedding. Just relax and enjoy spending time with your new hubby. He'll help you do the rest. And don't worry if you are too tired to make love, a lot of people don't have sex on their wedding night.
have fun and congrats!
2006-12-21 04:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, it's easy. Actually, on my wedding day, after the reception and a spectacularly beautiful day where, literally everything went right, my wife and I were dropped at one of the hotels right at Philadelphia International Airport by one of my brothers. Our flight departed early the next morning and we were taking the hotel shuttle to the airport. We checked into our room and went down to the restaurant for a light meal ... it wasn't too late and we were hungry 'cause we didn't get to eat much at our reception. We finished and went back to our room for the night. When we got there, we called our parents to thank them for everything they had done for us that day. We agreed to hit the sack because we were completely exhausted and we both fell asleep ... almost immediately ... no wedding night activities, if you know what I mean. We were out like lights. Next thing we knew, we were getting our wake-up call the next morning and we were off to the airport. Of course, the honeymoon was a different story! Hey now!
2006-12-20 14:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Iam getting married in a month tooo....congrats to you!
Well to start with i have planned to recite the quaran..after all the people u invite etc etc....cant forget GOD..he made us meet and what we are today is because of him(My thinking okies)
then maybe a meal together coz u wont eat much till u think everything is over.....then a GIFT for him....the wedding night one.....iam making over 150 coupans which he can redeem from ME whenever he wants.....like a breakfast in bed,a shower with me,a full body massage....thats up to you to add.....keep some time coz dont know what he has planned for me.....u could give him a tight hug and tell him...i cant believe we are married.....and a kisss.....and then i guess and hope.....everything will go fine!
Best of luck to you!
2006-12-23 21:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Cute Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably be dead tired from the day, busy with honeymoon plans and last-minute packing, and concerned with a lot of other things as well. Don't let your expectations get away from you. It's the first night of a new life, not the one-and-only night. My wife and I had a nice supper at the hotel with her folks and a few friends (the wedding was on the road so they were staying there as well) and retired to our room to open gifts and pack for the honeymoon. Believe it or not, we just went to bed and to sleep. We knew we had a lifetime ahead of us. No expectations, no pressure, no stress.
2006-12-20 14:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 05:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,prep like taking a bubble bath, cheat ,put a little make up.wear the most beautiful sexy night gown or teddies. Put a little perfume behind your ears, on the back of your knees. Do these things on double time Please.You don't want him to wait that long or he get tired waiting and snooze, go to him in a dramatic entrance and look him in the eyes,tell him you love him and kiss him on the lips,tenderly then not so tenderly, holding his face, then pour him a champagne,( don't get drunk you want to be in control ,let him get drunk if he wants,) Don't forget to light the scented candles, the trick is stroking his back towards his neck. Never,never make your hands and lips idle even for a second. Then Wham bam bam.
2006-12-20 15:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
with all the wedding crap, and reception, and other things you will be too tired to do a whole lot. get some rest and make the next day the fun day.
2006-12-20 14:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that you know that you must consimate the marriage...duh! But on the other side, keep playing the wedding over and over in your mind because 1. Its gonna fly by and 2. You can do it over and over again, but your first wedding will never be redone
2006-12-20 15:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by Just asking 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not married, but a kiss will do the trcik. You should to a one hour kiss.
And I'm serious!
My niece is married already andit works.
2006-12-20 20:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋