I'am 16 and can't get a boyfriend all my friends have boyfriends yet i don't have one. ( some of friends putout a lot too but..... i still went a boyfriend) so how do I get a boyfriend without being a slut?
2006-12-20 14:25:09 · 15 answers · asked by unkonwn person 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not worth rushing into just because your friends all have one.
It's not like an ipod or a phone, it's something emotional, and somewhat intelligent.
Stay single while you can, you find the right person soon enough.
2006-12-20 14:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by revoltix 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You have to be outgoing, and approachable in order for guys to want to talk to you. Talk to a few outsiders about what kind of vibe you are sending out, and make sure you are sending the right signals.
Go everywhere there are people gathered. Go from room to room, and make yourself seen.
You can even get a job that involves meeting guys-like restaurants, movies theaters, and departments stores.
Meet lots of friends of friends of friends.
You should be able to find a guy somewhere, but make sure your personality is warm to guys, or no matter where you go, it won't matter.
Good luck!
2006-12-20 14:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by dkuddle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are having that much trouble getting a boyfriend, then you will have dress like a slut (not be one). Us guys will notice a girl if she is wearing something revealing and we will more than likely try to get in bed with her, even if she isn't the prettiest girl in school.
2006-12-20 14:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw mabeee yoo need to think that having a boyfriend isnt that great! its true.
most of them are freakin losers who just wanna get into yoor pants because people at school tell everyone yoor easy.
even if yoo did succed to get a bf. soon after yoo would realise there just an accesory that yoo can live whithout.
but if yoor really that desperate to have a bf. find a guy yoo like and just constantly give him glares or compliments about how hott he is. most guys like girls being original so try make up yoor on humour.
have fun with that one & i hope yoo find what ur looking for aye.
x
2006-12-20 22:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend would not be fun.
Why not just make a few friends that are boys? There must be a few guys out there that don't have any girlfriends that would be happy just to talk with you.
2006-12-20 14:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well, just be cool to every one, and flirt around a little bit. And if you notice some guy who always in nervous around you, then ask him straight up if he likes you. Make sure you like him a little bit and give him a shot at going out with you.
2006-12-20 14:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself... stop cutting yourself too. I'm 17, and I have a girlfriend, I am shy. I think you may be shy too, I wouldn't worry about it much at all. You may want to just hang out with guys so you know how to interact with the opposite sex. That's what I did... and it worked for me. Guys like girls who won't nag about others...
e-mail me @ mack171077@yahoo.com... If you have anymore questions.
Please.
2006-12-20 16:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel all my friends have girlfriends and i dont. you should hang with a group of guys and wait till you become a local in the group then ask one out
2006-12-20 14:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Trevor B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to guys. Don't shy away from them. Interact with the kind of guys you are comfortable with. In time, if you play your cards right, one of them will ask you out. If they are too shy to, and you feel like one of them likes you, then you ask him out. I know it really may not seem this simple, but it is.
2006-12-20 14:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first dont act popular. then boys wont wanna ask u out. got that??!! u want a boufriend honey, u gotta try and ask some boys out ok?? but not 2 many boys ok?? people will than think ur a ***** if u do k? i dont really know what 2 say but good luck
2006-12-20 14:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by lady.t_from_newyork 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋